Originally posted by debbiejo
She will come when you least expect her too.....But god doesn't hate you because you don't have her now....It's also the power of attraction, It's a law of Nature....you attract what you put out....Don't put out "Needy", put out" I have", and you'll receive just what you're asking...It might not be what you expect, but it will be wonderful
debbiejo is right. Another thing is that God would want you to be strong. By this I mean He wants you to develop independence--the ability to stand on your own. Humans learn to stand on their own physically and even intellectually, but when it comes to emotions, that is our weak spot. We tend to depend on other people to decide how we will feel at that moment. By being "needy" you are saying that you are emotionally weak--that you let your emotions get the best of you. Yet a "needy" person does not want a "needy" person--they want someone who is emotionally secure. God wants both people to be emotionally secure in order for the relationship to work.