What is up with guys these days?

Started by Ronny4 pages

What is up with guys these days?

I am not making a parody thread to J to the P's thread, I was merely inspired by it.

As I said in the post I made there:

Originally posted by Ronny
I have my shit together ✅ I hate it when girls jump from guy to guy without any probelm, it really takes out the meaning of a relationship. I'm not going out with anyone right now, to be honest, I never have "gone out" with anyone. But I don't really want to at the moment. I used to want one really bad, but that was just for the sake of having them.

I haven't met anyone here (as in where I live, California) that I would be interested in a relationship with. 😬 So I'm just not looking for one now. And I'm probably going to turn everyone down that asks me out because of a personal issue with most men. There is another problem, I'm not attracted as much to high school guys, I don't think its because they're in high school, but just because they're really quite immature and rude and not very attractive. 😬 Plus they always think they have to prove something, when they really don't

And yes, I am a teenager.

I was wondering why most guys act like they have something to prove, like they're better then someone else at something. It's been going on since the dawn of time, whether its been Football or Jousting. It really kind of pisses me off how the think I could be attracted to someone with such a easily damaged ego.

They always have to walk around with their carefully shaved chin up and their jeans sagging to their knees like they think the world is theirs. Its absolute bullshit. ❌ They seem to always they things on the offensive, they don't even KNOW how to crack a gorram joke. They seem to think that oversize and undersized clothes are in when they totally over look the things that FIT them. I mean, I know you all have seen the 'gangsta' kids walking around in gorram zuit suits and those " the used" listening crybabies in the a second skin.

It may just be me, but I like guys that are comfortable enough with themselves that they don't have to worry about shaving in the morning if they don't want to and can wear whatever feels comfortable on them, ( and don't tell me tight clothes are comfortable because I can barely wear tight jeans, and I don't have balls or a cock.) Whatever happened to the guys that liked being themselves 🙁 It makes me sad. This is basically my view on how guys should act, and I don't think its really asking much is it? A lot of my friends think my standards are too high, but all I'm really see them as being is a normal guy 😬

And no, I am not asking anyone out, I'm just asking why guys have to act that way and totally ignore who they really are. I betcha there are guys on here like that, I'm pretty sure I know a few of them, but I haven't seem a single one at my high school. 😖

I don't normally wear tight clothes, I don't act like a 'lady' much, I do fart and burp in public and I'm loud, I like a lot of things you would catch a 'normal' dead doing. Like D&D, WoW, And Lasertag and I am head over heals in love with Firefly and Star Wars. I KNOW Guys aren't attracted to that but honestly I could care less because I am comfortable with myself. And I fail to see how girls can be comfortable being how they are when they are editing everything they do or think when it comes to enjoying themselves.

Ha! I just burped, right then. HA.

We're Men...we have issues

I really didn't noticed. 😛

I actually make an effort to walk a bit more humbly.

Rons listen to me...youre not the only one whos pondered this question. We men have searched far and wide as well for the answer.

The only thing I can say is it takes work. you never truelly find the one person youre in a 24/7 heaven with. Some day the honeymoon will be over. and you have to work on it. it takes work to have a relationship. consider it a job. but a fun one ✅

I love Coca-Cola ; I burp more than Pepsi woth Coke.

Originally posted by a1hsauce
Rons listen to me...youre not the only one whos pondered this question. We men have searched far and wide as well for the answer.

The only thing I can say is it takes work. you never truelly find the one person youre in a 24/7 heaven with. Some day the honeymoon will be over. and you have to work on it. it takes work to have a relationship. consider it a job. but a fun one ✅

All I'm saying is It cant be any harder to be comfortable then to be "cool"

I do it every day 😬

Originally posted by Ronny
All I'm saying is It cant be any harder to be comfortable then to be "cool"

I do it every day 😬


I like living the 'comfortable' life. 😊

Originally posted by GCG
I love Coca-Cola ; I burp more than Pepsi woth Coke.
😱 I burp more with coke too! But I like pepsi better cause I like the taste more. Coke is too syrupy ❌

Originally posted by DarkC
I actually make an effort to walk a bit more humbly.

I've been doing that since i was 10 😬

Originally posted by a1hsauce
We're Men...we have issues

Originally posted by DarkC
I like living the 'comfortable' life. 😊
Thats cause you are fantastic 😊 I've always been comfortable with you, and I never thought you thought too much of yourself. Cause you hella cool ✅

Originally posted by Ronny
All I'm saying is It cant be any harder to be comfortable then to be "cool"

I do it every day 😬


the perception of cool...is just sooo powerful though. people go to great lengths to attain it

Originally posted by Ronny
Thats cause you are fantastic 😊 I've always been comfortable with you, and I never thought you thought too much of yourself. Cause you hella cool ✅

bag

Thanks.

You're quite awesome too.

Originally posted by DarkC
bag

Thanks.

You're quite awesome too.

Bag = Uncomfortable 😛 Take it off!

Gracias!

I like a lot of things you would catch a 'normal' dead doing. Like D&D, WoW, And Lasertag and I am head over heals in love with Firefly and Star Wars. I KNOW Guys aren't attracted to that but honestly I could care less because I am comfortable with myself. And I fail to see how girls can be comfortable being how they are when they are editing everything they do or think when it comes to enjoying themselves.

Actually, you'd be surprised....

Originally posted by a1hsauce
the perception of cool...is just sooo powerful though. people go to great lengths to attain it
Whyyy though 🙁 alot of you guys are truely awesome when you dont get a shit and then when you go back to school and hang out with your friends or something its like Dr. Jeckle/Mr Hyde switcharooo ❌ BAD!

Originally posted by Lana
Actually, you'd be surprised....
About which part 😕

Originally posted by Ronny
Bag = Uncomfortable 😛 Take it off!

Gracias!

I always wear mine in my avatar.

Ha ha ; I just rememberd that scene out of family guy 😂

Originally posted by Ronny
About which part 😕

About guys not being attracted to girls like that who are still comfortable with themselves. Cos I'm just like you, Neera, I like all sorts of stuff that's geeky and never cared about fitting in. Once you get past childish high school immaturity stuff you'll realize that being comfortable and confident in yourself is a lot more attractive than worrying about what you need to do to fit in at that precise moment. Unfortunately not many people realize that until they're out of high school, you're about 4 years ahead of most people your age 😛