Re: What is up with guys these days?
Originally posted by Ronny
I am not making a parody thread to J to the P's thread, I was merely inspired by it.As I said in the post I made there:
I don't normally wear tight clothes, I don't act like a 'lady' much, I do fart and burp in public and I'm loud, I like a lot of things you would catch a 'normal' dead doing. Like D&D, WoW, And Lasertag and I am head over heals in love with Firefly and Star Wars. I KNOW Guys aren't attracted to that but honestly I could care less because I am comfortable with myself. And I fail to see how girls can be comfortable being how they are when they are editing everything they do or think when it comes to enjoying themselves.
Ha! I just burped, right then. HA.
That paragraph right there...is an example of the entire reason for my thread.
I'm not, but Ronny seemed to because she doesn't see the issue.
Girls are more self-conscious than guys on average, it doesn't take a guy obsessing over a hot girl to make her feel like she's not good enough does it? No. So let's not assume it's the guy's fault. Girls don't stroll around thinking "I'm good enough" on average.
Originally posted by Ronny
Exactly, thank you Lala.
For what though? You're asking why guys go for "whorish" girls, you're concerned about it. No guy has put that up in your face, it's a curiousity and worry you've developed alone.
You don't see the problem because you're comfortable with yourself now. Not everyone is. So when you're off mentioning how much you love buff guys, you have to realise that it's gonna affect some people. You even said yourself you're a picky girl. Which is fine, everyone has the right to standards. Just don't complain when the opposite happens to you.
Why do guys act like people they aren't? Well I would wager a very vague guess that maybe they are conforming to the image a lot of girls want and that's why they get a lot of girls. Because girls, otherwise, wouldn't have been interested.
-AC
Originally posted by JToThePI will admit I was like that 😬 everone is at some point in there life but the point is I got over it. I saw my flaws.
Ronny, I remember when you came to KMC originally. You tried to play it as you had so much to prove regardless if you had 'more experience' than the other girls here.This does seem in full as a reply/parody to my threat though.
And sorry is it seems that way, but I'm using both sides of the bat. I'm asking why guys and girls are like that, not just guys.
Hmm.. i should have changed the name of the thread
Originally posted by Lana
Don't forget the flip side of guys obsessing over really hot female celebs, which makes girls think they need to look like that to have any chances.
That is true. Certain guys (like myself) are always drawn to the hot looking gal. However, I never ask nor suggest to my girlfriend (whoever happens to be at that time) to improve her looks. I like her the way she looks. That's why I'm going out with her.
Originally posted by Alpha CentauriHow coudl you say that 😑 Yes they do. All the time. I have seem way too many to count think that way. And guys ARE as self concious as girls, men and women, no matter how they look or act are all human and have to an extent the same emotions. Every girl is as self concious as the next guy at some point
I'm not, but Ronny seemed to because she doesn't see the issue.Girls are more self-conscious than guys on average, it doesn't take a guy obsessing over a hot girl to make her feel like she's not good enough does it? No. So let's not assume it's the guy's fault. Girls don't stroll around thinking "I'm good enough" on average.
-AC
Originally posted by Ronny
How coudl you say that 😑 Yes they do. All the time. I have seem way too many to count think that way. And guys ARE as self concious as girls, men and women, no matter how they look or act are all human and have to an extent the same emotions. Every girl is as self concious as the next guy at some point
On average girls are psychologically more self-conscious because the female "world" is more image based than the male "world". From marketing, to television. Everything that is aimed at females subconsciously makes females on AVERAGE, more self-conscious. Compare the amount of Cosmopolitan-esque female magazines and tv shows, to those of male ones. Ever seen America's Next Top MALE Model? No? Exactly.
Not totally, or absolutely.
-AC
Originally posted by WrathfulDwarfIt's okay, I'm not angry or anything 😛 I'm laughing right now. Its from her birthday or something I wrote her name on my tummy in D&D model paint and I mispelled her name and didnt even notice it till asfter I posted the picture 😛
Who's Lala? Are you going Lalalala? 😛Spoiler:
sorry, I couldn't resist acting silly
Originally posted by Alpha CentauriThat is not true AT ALL. Every person is diffrent and has a diffrent veiw on them selves, You cant possibly say women are more self concious then men becasue of tv, because I know women that dont take that seriously and just go on with beign themselves. I know plenty of guys that are self concious about themselves because of the axe and BOD commercials and I know plenty of guys that are just like, hmm, well whatever.
On average girls are psychologically more self-conscious because the female "world" is more image based than the male "world". From marketing, to television. Everything that is aimed at females subconsciously makes females on AVERAGE, more self-conscious.Not totally, or absolutely.
-AC
Originally posted by Ronny
That is not true AT ALL. Every person is diffrent and has a diffrent veiw on them selves, You cant possibly say women are more self concious then men becasue of tv, because I know women that dont take that seriously and just go on with beign themselves. I know plenty of guys that are self concious about themselves because of the axe and BOD commercials and I know plenty of guys that are just like, hmm, well whatever.
I said average, not absolutely or completely (skipped the bottom of my post and everytime I mentioned it being average, apparantly). On average I do think you'll find it is true.
I never said there are no self-conscious guys. I am one of them. I said that females are on average, the more self-conscious gender.
Take off the defensive cap.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha CentauriI didnt skip your last line. I saw it, I didnt ignore it, I took it into account when I wrote my post. Women arent on adverage the most self concious gender, thats just on television, if guys actually took time to talk to most of us instead of just sleepign with them they'd see that.
I said average, not absolutely or completely (skipped the bottom of my post and everytime I mentioned it being average, apparantly). On average I do think you'll find it is true.I never said there are no self-conscious guys. I am one of them. I said that females are on average, the more self-conscious gender.
Take off the defensive cap.
-AC
And it wasnt defensive it was to get a point through, I'm not getting denfensive at all 😬 I'm pretty imbetween emotions right now. Pretty upbeat really.
Originally posted by JToTheP
Both genders focus too much on the physical, try talking to an individual as a person, I have some attractive friends with personalities & are fun & everything. I also have some who I would never date outside of a favor but have great personalities also.
You say that people focus too much on the physical, and then go to show that you're one of those people....nice.
Originally posted by Ronny
It's okay, I'm not angry or anything 😛 I'm laughing right now. Its from her birthday or something I wrote her name on my tummy in D&D model paint and I mispelled her name and didnt even notice it till asfter I posted the picture 😛
I remember that! 😂 a few of my friends call me Lala all the time, so that when people randomly go "Lalalala...." I almost think they're trying to get my attention 😂