What is up with guys these days?

Started by a1hsauce4 pages
a1hsauce Senior Member

Originally posted by Ronny
Whyyy though 🙁 alot of you guys are truely awesome when you dont get a shit and then when you go back to school and hang out with your friends or something its like Dr. Jeckle/Mr Hyde switcharooo ❌ BAD!

its about acceptance ronny...it feels good to have people around. to know that youre a part of something. and yah it does suck that some people live almost two different lives. those are the ones that need to learn how to deal with who they really are. its about identity

Alpha Centauri Restricted

Despite this post being ironic, it's just your experience with guys. It's not "most" guys anything.

I could make quite an accurate "most" women one, but it'd never actually be most women.

But your question, why do guys act like that? Because SOME girls always put it out there that they are attracted to buff, muscley superstars and feel that to have any hope, they have to do the same? Yes, think about that.

-AC

a1hsauce Senior Member

Originally posted by Lana
About guys not being attracted to girls like that who are still comfortable with themselves. Cos I'm just like you, Neera, I like all sorts of stuff that's geeky and never cared about fitting in. Once you get past childish high school immaturity stuff you'll realize that being comfortable and confident in yourself is a lot more attractive than worrying about what you need to do to fit in at that precise moment. Unfortunately not many people realize that until they're out of high school, you're about 4 years ahead of most people your age 😛

✅ and that sucks for you because you have to carry that baggage of maturity for the next four years 😬

Ronny Love is Blindness

Originally posted by Lana
About guys not being attracted to girls like that who are still comfortable with themselves. Cos I'm just like you, Neera, I like all sorts of stuff that's geeky and never cared about fitting in. Once you get past childish high school immaturity stuff you'll realize that being comfortable and confident in yourself is a lot more attractive than worrying about what you need to do to fit in at that precise moment. Unfortunately not many people realize that until they're out of high school, you're about 4 years ahead of most people your age 😛
😊 Oh I knew that, I just ment it toward the guys at highschool age. I have friends in their 20s and 30s that are like "Maureen if you where 3 years older I would so hit that" It can be disturbing but its funny. I'm just saying, why do high school guys like the whorey girls with low self esteem.

I betcha its that mtv.. With those half nekkid girls. Dancin wit dat fiddy actin like they dont know nutin!

justjakk Evil Bunny

Originally posted by Ronny
Thats cause you are fantastic 😊 I've always been comfortable with you, and I never thought you thought too much of yourself. Cause you hella cool ✅
ish me hella kool too ronnie??

WrathfulDwarf THE LOOSE CANNON

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri

But your question, why do guys act like that? Because SOME girls always put it out there that they are attracted to buff, muscley superstars and feel that to have any hope, they have to do the same? Yes, think about that.

-AC

Excellent point AC. When was the last time a hot looking babe went out with a geek looking dude? They avoid them like the plague.

Ronny Love is Blindness

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Despite this post being ironic, it's just your experience with guys. It's not "most" guys anything.

I could make quite an accurate "most" women one, but it'd never actually be most women.

But your question, why do guys act like that? Because SOME girls always put it out there that they are attracted to buff, muscley superstars and feel that to have any hope, they have to do the same? Yes, think about that.

-AC


Well MOST of the guys at my high school are like that, and MOST of the guys my age I know or have ever spoken too or heard of or seen on the street are like that.
I have thought about that 😬 And I still dont see where the issue is. If you were really comfortable with yourself you wouldn't care what girls thought about you.

GCG Red Bull

I sense some low self-esteem and horribly honest replies.

Alpha Centauri Restricted

Exactly.

If you're a 16 year old guy in high school, all the girls your own age are usually obsessed with whoever the hot popular guy is, or the latest hot celebrity. For most people, it's not too hard to sell out and become who you AREN'T in hopes of having a chance.

-AC

WrathfulDwarf THE LOOSE CANNON

Plus the gals are always looking for the Hot guy to take to the prom. And I didn't go to my prom. 😛

Ronny Love is Blindness

Originally posted by WrathfulDwarf
Excellent point AC. When was the last time a hot looking babe went out with a geek looking dude? They avoid them like the plague.
I think I'm pretty good looking and I have been attracted to extreamly 'geeky' guys, I have plenty of 'geeky' looking friends. It just depends on the girl. And I think you guys are taking this the wrong way. I said in my first post that I think girls are trying too hard as well, alot of girls at my high school dont go out with geeky dudes because its not cool. I'm not like that, alot of girls ARE NOT like that, just the billboard model types eho hype up with the "in" fashions of being "human"

Alpha Centauri Restricted
Originally posted by Ronny
Well MOST of the guys at my high school are like that, and MOST of the guys my age I know or have ever spoken too or heard of or seen on the street are like that.
I have thought about that 😬 And I still dont see where the issue is. If you were really comfortable with yourself you wouldn't care what girls thought about you.

If a really geeky guy liked you and overheard you talking about how much you love Chris Evans and his body, or guys with similar bodies how do you think he would feel? He'd feel that to have a chance at being even REMOTELY attractive, he'd have to be like that. Or worse, that you couldn't care less if the guy is nice inside or not. This may very well not be true, but it's a message you're giving off.

If girls stop putting it out there that they love all these inaccessible images, guys of a young age will stop trying to act up to them. That's the problem, you don't see the issue.

-AC

Ronny Love is Blindness

Originally posted by GCG
I sense some low self-esteem and horribly honest replies.
Who has low self esteem?

justjakk Evil Bunny

Originally posted by Ronny
Who has low self esteem?
he prolly means me....i asked is me hella kool....."points up"

JToTheP Waitin for Brawl

Ronny, I remember when you came to KMC originally. You tried to play it as you had so much to prove regardless if you had 'more experience' than the other girls here.

This does seem in full as a reply/parody to my threat though.

GCG Red Bull
Originally posted by Ronny
Who has low self esteem?

The Kool Aid Guy.....and Frankenstein

Lana mordrem

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
If a really geeky guy liked you and overheard you talking about how much you love Chris Evans and his body, or guys with similar bodies how do you think he would feel? He'd feel that to have a chance at being even REMOTELY attractive, he'd have to be like that. Or worse, that you couldn't care less if the guy is nice inside or not. This may very well not be true, but it's a message you're giving off.

If girls stop putting it out there that they love all these inaccessible images, guys of a young age will stop trying to act up to them. That's the problem, you don't see the issue.

-AC

Don't forget the flip side of guys obsessing over really hot female celebs, which makes girls think they need to look like that to have any chances.

GCG Red Bull
Originally posted by justjakk
he prolly means me....i asked is me hella kool....."points up"

😂 Not you lol

Ronny Love is Blindness

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
If a really geeky guy liked you and overheard you talking about how much you love Chris Evans and his body, or guys with similar bodies how do you think he would feel? He'd feel that to have a chance at being even REMOTELY attractive, he'd have to be like that.

If girls stop putting it out there that they love all these inaccessible images, guys of a young age will stop trying to act up to them. That's the problem, you don't see the issue.

-AC

I'm not saying its not intimidating but if he really liked me he would put out an effort to try and talk to me. Just because I find Chris Evans physiclly attractive DOES NOT mean that I would go out with him at the drop of a hat, I need to know how a guy is mentally before I go out with him. If say I met someone like Chris Evans but he was dumb and rude, I wouldnt go out with him no matter how cute he is. I have been mentally attracted to geeky guys that lack the model image.

a1hsauce Senior Member

bottom line we're all full of sh1t