Am I a man-whore?

Started by Vinny Valentine16 pages

Originally posted by Lana
As in romantic love?

Yep, possible.

I've seen it happen.

Well thats just wrong then 😛 If you truly love someone (And He REALLY liked Katy) Then you'd express all love for her, would you not? You wouldn't Love two people and well if the first one rejects you I'll go for second best. Thats Wrong.

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
Sorry, Like and Love are a different thing.

I liked Lea and Alicia since I've been here, Doesn't mean I loved them.

And the fact you LOVED Katy means you didn't LOVE Jill at the time, right?

Sorry, Your throwing flawed things out again, come back with something better.

You want the ****ing truth jackass? I used to love Katy a long time ago, before the emotional shredding she did to me continually on a regular basis just replaced it with general resentment and the little shell of an emotional core. It was easier to say I loved her than try to figure out if I really did, and eventually I was forced too when I realized I liked Jill. That entire night was a superficial dance for me and it did not damage to me whatsoever. I didn't love her at the time... stop taking everything that everyone says at face value. I love Gillian now, I've spent a countless amount of time trying to make damn well sure I do, analyzing my own actions, probably overly doing-so, trying to make sure this wasn't some false shell as well, but I know it isn't, I know the feelings are real, I know I hurt when she does, I know I'm happy when she is, I know where and who I want tob e with and I know I love her. Now thank you Vinny, for immaturely dragging this from MSN to PM and finally to the public because I refused to go into detail about this with you.

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
Well thats just wrong then 😛 If you truly love someone (And He REALLY liked Katy) Then you'd express all love for her, would you not? You wouldn't Love two people and well if the first one rejects you I'll go for second best. Thats Wrong.

That may be true, but do you think that love is an emotion you can control? That you can decide who you do and do not love?

Originally posted by Lana
As in romantic love?

Yep, possible.

I've seen it happen.

Love is a far too expansive object. You and Vinny are both right and you could go on all day about this.

Love is far too expendable and mysterious to be officially defined.

Originally posted by $noopbert
You want the ****ing truth jackass? I [b]used to love Katy a long time ago, before the emotional shredding she did to me continually on a regular basis just replaced it with general resentment and the little shell of an emotional core. It was easier to say I loved her than try to figure out if I really did, and eventually I was forced too when I realized I liked Jill. That entire night was a superficial dance for me and it did not damage to me whatsoever. I didn't love her at the time... stop taking everything that everyone says at face value. I love Gillian now, I've spent a countless amount of time trying to make damn well sure I do, analyzing my own actions, probably overly doing-so, trying to make sure this wasn't some false shell as well, but I know it isn't, I know the feelings are real, I know I hurt when she does, I know I'm happy when she is, I know where and who I want tob e with and I know I love her. Now thank you Vinny, for immaturely dragging this from MSN to PM and finally to the public because I refused to go into detail about this with you. [/B]

Whoa . . . That was unexpected. 😱

Originally posted by $noopbert
You want the ****ing truth jackass? I [b]used to love Katy a long time ago, before the emotional shredding she did to me continually on a regular basis just replaced it with general resentment and the little shell of an emotional core. It was easier to say I loved her than try to figure out if I really did, and eventually I was forced too when I realized I liked Jill. That entire night was a superficial dance for me and it did not damage to me whatsoever. I didn't love her at the time... stop taking everything that everyone says at face value. I love Gillian now, I've spent a countless amount of time trying to make damn well sure I do, analyzing my own actions, probably overly doing-so, trying to make sure this wasn't some false shell as well, but I know it isn't, I know the feelings are real, I know I hurt when she does, I know I'm happy when she is, I know where and who I want tob e with and I know I love her. Now thank you Vinny, for immaturely dragging this from MSN to PM and finally to the public because I refused to go into detail about this with you. [/B]

Sorry, that doesn't tell me why you god mad at David. Explain that, and It was here to begin with, I took it to MSN when you stopped talking.

Dude, I can drag the conversation you had with me and Katy in if you want, but you were IN LOVE. Sorry, the way you were acting before and after, its love from what I saw.

Just apologize for being an ass to David 😬

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
Sorry, that doesn't tell me why you god mad at David. Explain that, and It was here to begin with, I took it to MSN when you stopped talking.

Dude, I can drag the conversation you had with me and Katy in if you want, but you were IN LOVE. Sorry, the way you were acting before and after, its love from what I saw.

Just apologize for being an ass to David 😬

Gillian already saw that. She knows I love her, she believes it (I hope). I'm sorry, but it doesn't matter if you believe I love her or not, or anyone else for that matter, just as llong as she knows I does and that I am sure I love her. And I am.

As for David... just plain jealousy I acted over 😬 Sorry David for being ass.

Originally posted by $noopbert
Gillian already saw that. She knows I love her, she believes it (I hope). I'm sorry, but it doesn't matter if you believe I love her or not, or anyone else for that matter, just as llong as she knows I does and that I am sure I love her. And I am.

As for David... just plain jealousy I acted over 😬 Sorry David for being ass.

Thank You!

Thats all I wanted you to do!

There, my work is done.

Originally posted by Lana
As in romantic love?

Yep, possible.

I've seen it happen.

Ditto.

A little message for Vinny Valentine... you have NO RIGHT to say whether he loved someone or not! You don't have the faintest clue what's going on in his heart.

Originally posted by Xavius
I knew you'd say exactly that in a reply. That's why I reinforced my statement by saying you'd make some statement to my maturity in that manner.

Or you said it because you wanted to say what you said above, works both ways and history proves my point.

Originally posted by Xavius
The bottom line is; You're calling me a child when I'm older than you, AC. The logic is skewered at this point because you're wrong. I'm literally not child COMPARED to you and nor am I acting like one.

Funny that, because I said you are all acting like kids, I didn't say you all were factually children. I know your age, so why would I say that you were an actual child? You misread it, you messed up, so apologise.

Originally posted by Xavius
No, I'm fighting against a false claim that was made and backing up one of my friends because they were wrongfully insulted out of the blue; Just like you're backing yourself up right now. I've seen you been banned before because you acted like an immature fruit whom went back and forth until finally the mod just slipped you into restriction for a while. Let's not forget that you were completely in the wrong in that instance. You've done the same in the past. You're the last person on earth who's in a position to judge anybody, AC. Remember that.

Yeah, and I said that you should be careful when calling someone a "little kid" because you are acting like one. Where's the malfunction? You are acting like one, whether you are one or not.

Also, I've been banned twice, and both times I had a list of members lining up to say it was bs and I actually didn't deserve it, that it was wrong. The second even more so, I even had mods backing me up. So apparantly you haven't "seen" anything have you? You just knew I got banned, because you evidently have no clue why it happened. I'd thank you not to speak on matters on which you aren't educated.

So once again, apologise.

Originally posted by Xavius
Wow, people thought you were older. Would you like an award?

I'm not the one saying "I'm older than you" like it's some kind of crowning achievement, champ.

Originally posted by Xavius
And no, I've been driven to this level because I was helping someone whom was wrongfully assaulted. Bottom line. And now I'm fighting against a wrongful accusation against me. That's all there is to it.

No, you're fighting against a wrongful accusation you thought you saw. If you want to be part of this for your own personal reasons, that's none of my business, I just believe it's hypocritcal to use immaturity as an insult when you are acting immature by partaking in a sides-fight.

Originally posted by Xavius
Hypocrisy is Hypocrisy is hypocrisy, AC.

Read the above post. You can either accept that you misread and looked before you leaped, or continue. Either way, done. I'm just here watching out of curiousity, it's none of my business why you're involved.

-AC

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
Thank You!

Thats all I wanted you to do!

There, my work is done.

🤨 Then why did you spend so much time covering everything else, why didn't you just say that in the Private Messages or even on the MSN conversation isntead of dragging all this crap out onto the boards?

Originally posted by Alley
A little message for Vinny Valentine... you have NO RIGHT to say whether he loved someone or not! You don't have the faintest clue what's going on in his heart.

Sorry, I only listen to people who know whats going on from more then just one page.

Originally posted by $noopbert
🤨 Then why did you spend so much time covering everything else, why didn't you just say that in the Private Messages or even on the MSN conversation isntead of dragging all this crap out onto the boards?

It was on the boards to begin with.

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
Sorry, I only listen to people who know whats going on from more then just one page.

It was on the boards to begin with.

The **** it was, Alicia went off on him and you bring the entire mess onto it. Answer my question, why didn't you just tell me that's what you wanted in MSN or the PM's?

Originally posted by $noopbert
The **** it was, Alicia went off on him and you bring the entire mess onto it. Answer my question, why didn't you just tell me that's what you wanted in MSN or the PM's?

I Did.

I told you I wanted you to apologize to david and you kept saying I was Bullshitting everything.

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
I Did.

I told you I wanted you to apologize to david and you kept saying I was Bullshitting everything.

I'll re-read the PM's, but you didn't say anything of a sort in the MSN conversation.

Originally posted by $noopbert
I'll re-read the PM's, but you didn't say anything of a sort in the MSN conversation.

But seriously, Can you not expect me to defend my friend when people are talking about him behind his back and publicly? Making him look like a complete *******?

I was always taught to fight my own battles and defend my own honour, personally. Not sit back and let my friends do it.

-AC

Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
But seriously, Can you not expect me to defend my friend when people are talking about him behind his back and publicly? Making him look like a complete *******?
You never asked me to apologize to David in either PM or MSN. So why drag it out? To make me look like an *******?

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
I was always taught to fight my own battles and defend my own honour, personally. Not sit back and let my friends do it.

-AC

Me too.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
I was always taught to fight my own battles and defend my own honour, personally. Not sit back and let my friends do it.

-AC

David isn't Here, and he doesn't get on the computer as much.... So I feel inclined to defend him. But we all get raised differnetly, I can't sit back and see my friends getting bashed and taunted by everyone.

Originally posted by $noopbert
You never asked me to apologize to David in either PM or MSN. So why drag it out? To make me look like an *******?

Me too.

Did you in the end Apologize? And Yes I did On MSN.