Originally posted by RaeRox
I stopped being a ****ing child 3 years ago Ken, you dont even KNOW the shit I have had to think about in my life. Heres something Alicia will readily tell you too, I DO NOT put up with normal childhood shit ok?
If you have so much "shit" to think about in your life, then what the hell is being engaged at the age of fourteen gonna do? Give you more "shit" to think about? Engagement is a serious commitment not to be taken lightly. Almost as serious and marraige. This Dustin seems a bit odd to me.
Originally posted by Zatch
or...I am just too smart for my own good..people agree people disagree...each and everyone has their own opinions...you don't like it fine with me, but don't criticize...and I'm 16 for you people who kept asking...
Usually people declaring they're "too smart for their own good" is a good sign that they are, in fact, not.
Originally posted by Flamboyant4LifeThat I was...honestly though if it isn't dealing with yourself you have not really any say. Once you have said what you have said why continue to repost expressing a different idea than the first. People can figure out what you are talking about in the first post. It doesn't take multiple times to get it across.
Dude, you're proposing at the age of sixteen. And your "fiancee" posted a thread about it. Expect criticism.
That I was...honestly though if it isn't dealing with yourself you have not really any say.I don't have any say...but I do find it a bit odd to be proposing this young and immature. I'll express my opinion as much as I want.
Once you have said what you have said why continue to repost expressing a different idea than the first.What?
People can figure out what you are talking about in the first post. It doesn't take multiple times to get it across.Okay everyone, let us only post our opinions once in each thread.
Originally posted by 0MENHonestly...not until she is 18 which is a few years away...We can act as young as ever just have the term "engaged" not much difference. Same two people, different lable on us. I see it as getting closer. As I said many people have many different opinions. Like they say though...opinions are like assholes...everyone has one, but most of them stink.
Okay so you proposed, are you guys engaged now?If you guys are now, when are you getting married?
I know lots of people that get engaged at young age but don’t get married till much later on.
Originally posted by Zatch
Honestly...not until she is 18 which is a few years away...We can act as young as ever just have the term "engaged" not much difference. Same two people, different lable on us. I see it as getting closer. As I said many people have many different opinions. Like they say though...opinions are like assholes...everyone has one, but most of them stink.
I see nothing wrong with getting engaged now and getting married later.
Congrats man clap
Originally posted by Zatch
Honestly...not until she is 18 which is a few years away...We can act as young as ever just have the term "engaged" not much difference. Same two people, different lable on us. I see it as getting closer. As I said many people have many different opinions. Like they say though...opinions are like assholes...everyone has one, but most of them stink.
But...what makes you think you'll still be together in 4 years? Or that you'll be ready for such a thing then?
Originally posted by LanaLana that is our concern. If we really think we will be then what does it matter? Your view on this situation is different than ours. If we think it is a good idea then it is. If it turns out bad, it is our problem not anyone elses. Honestly though we have been through alot and if we are still together after all that has happened then I definitely see us together in 4 years.
But...what makes you think you'll still be together in 4 years? Or that you'll be ready for such a thing then?
Originally posted by Zatch
If we really think we will be then what does it matter? Your view on this situation is different than ours. If we think it is a good idea then it is. If it turns out bad, it is our problem not anyone elses. Honestly though we have been through alot and if we are still together after all that has happened then I definitely see us together in 4 years.
All I can say is that such youthful endeavors are often foolish and short sighted with specific circumstances dictating your emotions and actions. Believe me just because you think its a good idea today doesn't make it so.
Have fun, keep it real.