Men can have multiple orgasms, let me address you on that. And in proper tantric sex, if men unites at the strongest level of love with his woman, he will experience an orgasm of similar resonating intensity. In fact, if done right, both will climax together. To learn how to have multiple orgasms, the man must first not want lust, but love. This known long ago from the ancient Eastern traditions and religions. The reason for this is a complex issue. I will try my best to explain for your benefit in the simplest terms I can make of, but not without losing its potency. The reason for this is simple, but not readily realised by many. Because the challenge of life, in fact the meaning of life, lies in the interplay of the sexes. It is the triumph of man to evolve spiritually into the completion of women, by that being their emotional receptivity and strength. Women is the static, passive completed form, whose purpose is to centre the dance between the sexes, so that the pursuer of her can learn the greatest transmutation and meaning of life of all, of transmuting from the animal lead, to the humane gold. Lust to love. When a man, since in his natural disposition prefers lust, choose love out of purity for the sake of her union, will receive immense bliss and pleasure. It can be said then, the male sex approach, that although appears more primitive, is more advantaged to having greater bliss in life, from the necessary dynamic of being to receive more meaning and depth from this position of greater possible potential from being in a lower desire, and yet CHOOSING a higher path. Women are necessarily "complete" in this sense to allow the receptivity that acts as a regulating influence and check on the greater drive of men. This drive, sexual, is the same expression of all other drives and ambitions, just raised to a higher, purer facility. This is what they mean by the "disobedience to God's will" as mentioned in Genesis, of the Fall of Man through original sin, which is lust or desire. He chose to fall as a symbolism of the intrinsic taint that life carries, as a result of the natural need to propagate. This taint is why Man are not God, but made in His image. There are more things to be said, but I will carry on with how to perform the multiple orgasm and allow it to reach the same emotional intensity as a woman's orgasm. A man's desire is strongly within with an erotic quality for idealising the woman, and this control of logic written eroticism, allows when truly merged with love for the woman, to stimulate into a highly charged and intense love-making, but one that is DEEP, SLOW yet PASSIONATE. The fast method is the sign of brutes, that although can also be used for tantric sex, is more inclined to be only for lower passions closer to animals. The meaning of life is to Love, and it is physicalized most strongly in this act of love-making. This is naturally impossible between homosexuals, so that's the meaning why it is criticised in the Bible. The heterogenous qualities between the complementary Yin and Yang is what allows for this pure process, and as homosexuals are the way they are because of hormonal imbalance, it is not certain if the same dynamic is present in the possession of their own various expressions of love-making.
So, this is extensive, but I have yet to conclude on how to gain multiple orgasms of similar intensity. The reason why women experience more intense orgasms, and why they cannot cum, is the fault of the man. Although the man has a natural advantageous position over her, it is within this Complex Dynamic of Life, that the true man tempers his violence into a force of overwhelming love for his attraction, and in that sense of imbuing him with true virtue, he comes to bow to the woman as a veneration of his eternal love for her, unexclusive. This creates an intense frequency within the mutual bond established between the two during the passion of the tantric sex, and it becomes almost a psychic link, that when matched and complemented to the point of driving her towards orgasm, has reached its fulfilment of true love in pleasing the opposite in unconditionality, separate from this apparent difference that has been the source of contention between most people. Thus, it is the emotional vulnerability of women, which is what women experiences during sex, and why they experience greater orgasmic intensity registers within the brain is exactly due to it being an emotional investment for them. It is not because of some inherent difference in brain structural design, but a difference of how the sex is enacted within the dynamics of both sexes. Because men are operated by a dominant arousal within their lower regions, it is the temptation and test of men to be able to realise on their old accord the defiling nature of lust, and that it is actually a very temporal satisfaction that can never realise the person, and this seeking of love instead of lust is what defines the greatest strength in all of Mankind. It is an action of wise choice, of a beauty sublime within inherent of purifying the willpower. This is the great challenge of life of men, their subduing of their lost into higher functions, and what drives the meaning of life. It is a symbolic representation of the seeking of completion in purifying the willpower, and gaining within the truest pleasure that can only be appreciated of higher purposes. All these are coded in the religious traditions, it is just that it has been misinterpreted in people's inability to comprehend at depth. I hope you understand it. The meaning of life is not love-making per se, but Love, unconditioned, in which is best expressed in the focal point of mutual attraction between men and women. This is the preferred path of purification between ordinary men and women, because most are not inclined towards higher spiritual pursuits. The end result of this purification is moksha, which is liberation into Enlightenment. To what extent it can be achieved by this method is unsure by me. But in other words, a man can reach the same intensity of orgasm when the act of love-making is at its highest and its purest, that is when men motively engaged in emotional union of love and not just driven purely for satiety of lust.
As to how to have multiple orgasms for men, something that Science wrongly believes to be impossible, it has to do with control of the impulses of erotic desire as it travels in intensity up from the base of the erect penis to its tip, which is why when a man engages in this type of highly charged tantric sex, the tip becomes very sensitive after orgasm. If you observe yourself when you masturbate, although masturbation is the strongest hindrance to a pure life, you will notice when in your fertile imagination, and you project your fantasies, as they climax into greater erotic intensity, so too does your impulses felt as the pleasure of the genitalia area in the act match that level of thought fantasy. The controlling point as the feeling reaches the tip is what allows for multiple orgasms. To do so, is hard to explain properly in detail, but it has to do once again of wanting to please the woman and not yourself, because that is a sign of great devotion to a love of her as who she is, and not as just a base tool for your primal desire. Once that is possibly reached, it becomes then possible to increase the desire pass the natural limit of orgasm in men, prolonging the sex act, and eliminating the problem of premature orgasm in some men. As you can see, this dynamic is directly played out with deep meaning and suggestion. I leave the rest up to your decisive analysis of what it all means.
Women tend to be more sexist or prone to hate the other sex than men. I understand that cause, if you think about it, men sexually are dominant simply because they're the penetrators. So if men are sexually dominant, culture tends to lean towards dominance in every facet. Human nature isn't fair but, I agree with women that it shouldn't be grounds for putting anyone above anyone else; but you shouldn't hate us for nature and societal trend. When individuality is ignored for general populace, you become a bigot.
Originally posted by Dolos
Women tend to be more sexist or prone to hate the other sex than men. I understand that cause, if you think about it, men sexually are dominant simply because they're the penetrators. So if men are sexually dominant, culture tends to lean towards dominance in every facet. Human nature isn't fair but, I agree with women that it shouldn't be grounds for putting anyone above anyone else; but you shouldn't hate us for nature and societal trend. When individuality is ignored for general populace, you become a bigot.