Originally posted by A_broken_smile
O.......girls can ask guys out...girls shouldn't ask a guy to marry her....but girls can ask girls out.
Of course girls can (meaning they are fully capable of doing so) but it's not necessarily the smartest thing for a girl to ask a guy out. If a guy doesn't ask you out, and yet you know he likes you and wants to ask you out doesn't give you an excuse. If he doesn't have the guts to ask you then he's most likely not that interested in you. If a guy really likes you, he'll ask you. Otherwise you're just wasting your time waiting for someone who isn't even that interested in you.
Originally posted by Itzak
Of course girls [b]can (meaning they are fully capable of doing so) but it's not necessarily the smartest thing for a girl to ask a guy out. If a guy doesn't ask you out, and yet you know he likes you and wants to ask you out doesn't give you an excuse. If he doesn't have the guts to ask you then he's most likely not that interested in you. If a guy really likes you, he'll ask you. Otherwise you're just wasting your time waiting for someone who isn't even that interested in you. [/B]
That's not necessarily true. Just because a guy chooses not to ask a girl out doesn't mean he's just not interested. It could be for a number of other reasons already mentioned in this thread as you can see illustrated below from non other than a male himself...
Originally posted by TheKingofKINGS!
Smart- usually means she's hard to getBeautiful- increases the hard to get-ness
Dateless- means she's a lesbo, doesn't want to date, or just really hard to get.
She's probablly got someone, and if not, maybe your personalities would clash.
Go ahead, pick one also add shyness, intimidation and uncertainty of reciprocation and any other adjective you'd like as a possible barrier. Not to mention bad rumors, stories, misunderstanding etc.
Anyway, in todays world with todays liberated, feminist, I have a job too and I don't need a man to take care of me or tell me what to do women, it's perfectly acceptable for a woman to approach a man if she chooses to. After all, aren't women these days just as sure about what they want as men? So what's the difference?
The way I see it if a woman chooses not to approach a man that she's interested in then she's exhibiting the same type of so called 'pussiness' that a guy would. The simple fact of the matter is that a woman is just as afraid of rejection as a man is if not more! Woman are very self conscious even the hot ones that you think are loaded with confidence. If it wasn't for all these ancient horn dogs, who have no chance to sore with them to begin with, that sweat them 20 times a day some wouldn't be as stuck up. It's a fact that women like and need to be complimented regularly. Even the hot ones think somethings wrong with them.
So in conclusion a woman's ego is just as fragile as a guys again if not more. Bottom line it's hard for a woman to deal with rejection, many of them don't take it well, that's why they don't like to put themselves out like that. They're more content with letting the guys do it instead, which is smart. I mean why do something when you know you really don't have to. Let the guy take all the risk. Makes sense to me. The fact is guys are a lot better at dealing with rejection than chicks. Guys are used to getting turned down all the time, chicks aren't and that doesn't tend to sit very well with them when it actually happens. Have you ever seen a chick get turned down before, it's not a pretty site. 🤪