Ask Strangelove

Started by Punkyhermy236 pages

yes.

and done!😱

I sleep with my cell because inconsiderate jerks text me at like 4 am and demand a reply 😠

Originally posted by silver_tears
I sleep with my cell because inconsiderate jerks text me at like 4 am and demand a reply 😠
jerks indeed

Dear Strangelove...

...it turns out I don't have a question, I just like saying Dear Strangelove, is that weird? Oh wait! There's a question! 😱

Not weird at all eyes

To whom it may concern:

How do people know when they're over a broken heart?
Do they just wake up one day and are all better and ready to try again?
Or is it all just an elaborate attempt to fool thine own self into thinking you're healed, when in reality you're not healed at all, and your heart will always have that wound on it, and it will just be glazed over but always cracked?

a combination of all those scenarios in my experience. 😬

I'm terrified that once my heart gets broken, I mean really broken, it'll never be ready nor willing to love again.

Yeah, I've never been in a relationship, so I'm not the one to ask. That's what I hired you for, Irene tongue

Originally posted by silver_tears
I'm terrified that once my heart gets broken, I mean really broken, it'll never be ready nor willing to love again.

Been there done that a couple times, time heals your heart a bit, but you'll never ever forget those you've ever fallen in love with.

Originally posted by Röland
Been there done that a couple times, time heals your heart a bit, but you'll never ever forget those you've ever fallen in love with.

Is it really true that you always remember the first?

Originally posted by Strangelove
Yeah, I've never been in a relationship, so I'm not the one to ask. That's what I hired you for, Irene tongue

Relationships I may have skills in, but broken hearts I'm a zero. 😛

Originally posted by silver_tears
Is it really true that you always remember the first?

To be honest Irene, not a day goes by that I don't think for at least a moment about the first girl I ever fell in love with.

There is always something to remind me of her.

Originally posted by Röland
To be honest Irene, not a day goes by that I don't think for at least a moment about the first girl I ever fell in love with.

There is always something to remind me of her.

I'm scared. cry

Originally posted by silver_tears
I'm scared. cry

Don't be. petpet

If you ever think about that person, even if it's every day and even if you tell yourself you should be with them, remember that there is some reason you are not with them. I know it hurts and it sucks but there is someone out there for you. hug

I'm not sure if this is the exact quote but. . .

Don't live in the past, by living in the past, you have no future.

If you ever want to talk to me, just PM me, I'd be happy to listen. 😊

hug

Originally posted by silver_tears
Is it really true that you always remember the first?

i know i still heart the first boy i fancied. 😛

Originally posted by Röland
Don't be. petpet

If you ever think about that person, even if it's every day and even if you tell yourself you should be with them, remember that there is some reason you are not with them. I know it hurts and it sucks but there is someone out there for you. hug

I'm not sure if this is the exact quote but. . .

Don't live in the past, by living in the past you have no future.

If you ever want to talk to me just PM me, I'm happy to listen. 😊

hug

that is very true.

nothing in this world is random and just because. if something isn't meant to be, it was never meant to be. it hurts. and i claw and i grip and i hold on tight. but whats not going to happen won't. 😬

and the idea that someone who is mine is out there wandering the streets somewhere is so uplifting. this holds especially true for me what with the instability i deal with on a daily basis. i tend to be upset periodically about how i will never have that ending up with the boy next door whom you grew up with type of romance. but then i am reminded of the excitement that entails this mystery of a man that is supposed to be mine.😛

i spent too much of my childhood on rooftops. it was on one late night spilling secrets when my best friend and i looked at the moon and wondered if our "the ones" were looking at it at that very moment.😛

haha. silly teenage girls yes.😛 but hope is what turns the world indeed.🙂

listen to roland, he is right ✅

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
that is very true.

nothing in this world is random and just because. if something isn't meant to be, it was never meant to be. it hurts. and i claw and i grip and i hold on tight. but whats not going to happen won't. 😬

and the idea that someone who is mine is out there wandering the streets somewhere is so uplifting. this holds especially true for me what with the instability i deal with on a daily basis. i tend to be upset periodically about how i will never have that ending up with the boy next door whom you grew up with type of romance. but then i am reminded of the excitement that entails this mystery of a man that is supposed to be mine.😛

i spent too much of my childhood on rooftops. it was on one late night spilling secrets when my best friend and i looked at the moon and wondered if our "the ones" were looking at it at that very moment.😛

haha. silly teenage girls yes.😛 but hope is what turns the world indeed.🙂

I've been broken hearted twice and I must admit that I am a different person. Funny how a broken heart can change a person's personality. 😬

I don't dwell on what she did to me anymore, but I feel that until I meet someone new I am trapped in a sort of cage that only someone else can unlock. . .

I do agree with what you said Punky, everything happens for a reason. Who knows maybe the girl I saw myself with for the rest of my life would have ended up taking my money and running away with the kids. 😛

Originally posted by Röland
I've been broken hearted twice and I must admit that I am a different person. Funny how a broken heart can change a person's personality. 😬

I don't dwell on what she did to me anymore, but I feel that until I meet someone new I am trapped in a sort of cage that only someone else can unlock. . .

I do agree with what you said Punky, everything happens for a reason. Who knows maybe the girl I saw myself with for the rest of my life would have ended up taking my money and running away with the kids. 😛

aw...i can imagine. 😬

*hugs*

thats good then tho...but yeah the fact remains that no one else can lift you up the way you can. so i'd suggest before you get involved again...prepare yourself..better yourself for the next big step in your life. you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. i so believe in this. 🙂

mhmm...indeed😛