Originally posted by Lana
Oh yes it does. Everyone experiences it differently. And it doesn't always last.And just because you're in love with someone doesn't mean you can't lust for someone else - especially if you are no longer together and you're moving on.
"Love" in its truest and simplest form is a straightforward thing. Its a phenomenon independant of the relationships that have come to be assosiated with it. Therefore, love when in the context of a sexual relationship, would ensure that the object of serious lust is also the one who is on the recieving end of the "love" being exchanged.
as simple as that.
but because people would rather sugar coat the not so pretty instincts that over come them, thats where this "everyone experiences love differently" comes in.
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
"Love" in its truest and simplest form is a straightforward thing. Its a phenomenon independant of the relationships that have come to be assosiated with it. Therefore, love when in the context of a sexual relationship, would ensure that the object of serious lust is also the one who is on the recieving end of the "love" being exchanged.as simple as that.
but because people would rather sugar coat the not so pretty instincts that over come them, thats where this "everyone experiences love differently" comes in.
sooooooooooo... would you naughty
Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Sorry babe but would you really know? He and I broke up well over a month ago and it was about time I moved on, and I admit, I did it suddenly, and it's not COMPLETE, because nobody completely gets over their first love, but I wasn't going to sit at home and pray to God that he'd come back to me and threaten to take my life over him because he was out having a good time and I wasn't, so I decided to do something about it, and I fell for someone else in the process. I really did Love Daniel, you may think that I didn't, but I did. 😉
babes.love can't be fallen out of. lust can and always does. love is not something initiated by flow of hormonal chemicals.
and don't exaggerate the situation. its got nothing to do with you slitting your wrists. its got to do with you truely loving someone you only claim to have "loved". the feeble picture you painted above proves nohing more than your apparent very feeble grasp on the concept. 😬
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
"Love" in its truest and simplest form is a straightforward thing. Its a phenomenon independant of the relationships that have come to be assosiated with it. Therefore, love when in the context of a sexual relationship, would ensure that the object of serious lust is also the one who is on the recieving end of the "love" being exchanged.as simple as that.
but because people would rather sugar coat the not so pretty instincts that over come them, thats where this "everyone experiences love differently" comes in.
There is absolutely NOTHING straightforward about love and no one who has experienced it would think or say so.
Yes, everyone experiences love differently. Yes, people CAN fall out of love. Who are you to tell other people what they are and aren't feeling?
Have you ever actually been in love? Loved someone so much you'd do anything for them? Because I have. I am right now. And I can tell you straight off that what I feel is not going to be the same as what Kelly felt for Daniel, or what BlackSunshine feels for Impediment, or anyone else. Because we're all different people in different situations. Nor is there anything straight-forward about it - love is one of the most complex and complicated feelings there is because it encompasses so many other feelings.
Originally posted by Lana
There is absolutely NOTHING straightforward about love and no one who has experienced it would think or say so.Yes, everyone experiences love differently. Yes, people CAN fall out of love. Who are you to tell other people what they are and aren't feeling?
Have you ever actually been in love? Loved someone so much you'd do anything for them? Because I have. I am right now. And I can tell you straight off that what I feel is not going to be the same as what Kelly felt for Daniel, or what BlackSunshine feels for Impediment, or anyone else. Because we're all different people in different situations. Nor is there anything straight-forward about it - love is one of the most complex and complicated feelings there is because it encompasses so many other feelings.
Ummm....yeah. You are correct, Lana. But, let's not get sooo deep.
I think you summed it up best when you said being in love w/ someone means you'd do anything for them. That's a good spot to keep things in common. Everyone knows what that means/entails if they've been there.
For the record, I'm not disagreeing with anything you said...merely clarifying. 😉
Originally posted by Lana
There is absolutely NOTHING straightforward about love and no one who has experienced it would think or say so.Yes, everyone experiences love differently. Yes, people CAN fall out of love. Who are you to tell other people what they are and aren't feeling?
Have you ever actually been in love? Loved someone so much you'd do anything for them? Because I have. I am right now. And I can tell you straight off that what I feel is not going to be the same as what Kelly felt for Daniel, or what BlackSunshine feels for Impediment, or anyone else. Because we're all different people in different situations. Nor is there anything straight-forward about it - love is one of the most complex and complicated feelings there is because it encompasses so many other feelings.
Nope. I'm sorry but that's bullshit.
Love is not complicated. Our misusing of the term is what makes the entire phenomenon messy and dirty and complicated.
Its not very hard to read what people are feeling. People make a living out of telling what people are feeling, lol.
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
Nope. I'm sorry but that's bullshit.Love is not complicated. Our misusing of the term is what makes the entire phenomenon messy and dirty and complicated.
Its not very hard to read what people are feeling. People make a living out of telling what people are feeling, lol.
Kindly answer my question where I asked if you have ever actually been in love.
Because based on your posts I would severely doubt you have been.