Originally posted by Punkyhermy
I have never been in "love" as of yet.I have however, seen and witnessed it. 😊
Never is there so much beauty in so much simplicity.
Just as I thought.
I am sorry as this will sound extremely condescending, but love's really one of those things where you can't know what it's like until you've personally experienced it.
What you may have witnessed might have been seemingly very simple and straightforward but I can tell you from experience that it is not always the case and in fact is very rare for it to ever not be complex and complicated.
Originally posted by Lana
Just as I thought.I am sorry as this will sound extremely condescending, but love's really one of those things where you can't know what it's like until you've personally experienced it.
What you may have witnessed might have been seemingly very simple and straightforward but I can tell you from experience that it is not always the case and in fact is very rare for it to ever not be complex and complicated.
Indeed.
-no offense, Punky. 🙂
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
babes.love can't be fallen out of. lust can and always does. love is not something initiated by flow of hormonal chemicals.and don't exaggerate the situation. its got nothing to do with you slitting your wrists. its got to do with you truely loving someone you only claim to have "loved". the feeble picture you painted above proves nohing more than your apparent very feeble grasp on the concept. 😬
Originally posted by Lana
There is absolutely NOTHING straightforward about love and no one who has experienced it would think or say so.Yes, everyone experiences love differently. Yes, people CAN fall out of love. Who are you to tell other people what they are and aren't feeling?
Have you ever actually been in love? Loved someone so much you'd do anything for them? Because I have. I am right now. And I can tell you straight off that what I feel is not going to be the same as what Kelly felt for Daniel, or what BlackSunshine feels for Impediment, or anyone else. Because we're all different people in different situations. Nor is there anything straight-forward about it - love is one of the most complex and complicated feelings there is because it encompasses so many other feelings.
Originally posted by Lana
Just as I thought.I am sorry as this will sound extremely condescending, but love's really one of those things where you can't know what it's like until you've personally experienced it.
What you may have witnessed might have been seemingly very simple and straightforward but I can tell you from experience that it is not always the case and in fact is very rare for it to ever not be complex and complicated.
haha. no..i don't really buy that. its a very predictable way to out of a debate of sorts.
as i said before, love is independant of the relationships it is defined by. I have experienced love just not it in a sexual context. which is a fact in this case not exactly relavant anyway.
Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Not trying to be mean, but please, until you've experienced it, don't try and tell me that I never loved him.
Its not like i'm doubting your "love" for him just out of the whim here hon. You have given me solid proof to evaluate and come to that conclusion, what can i say? lol
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
haha. no..i don't really buy that. its a very predictable way to out of a debate of sorts.as i said before, love is independant of the relationships it is defined by. I have experienced love just not it in a sexual context. which is a fact in this case not exactly relavant anyway.
It's not a way out of a debate, it's the truth. You fall in love and will very quickly realize that all of your thoughts about it before were wrong.
Nor would I say love is independent of the relationship...and I'd like to point out that love and sex have little to do with each other and can be completely seperate altogether.
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
Its not like i'm doubting your "love" for him just out of the whim here hon. You have given me solid proof to evaluate and come to that conclusion, what can i say? lol
You can't evaluate someone's relationship just by what they say on a message board.
I love you too! hug
Alright I'm probably going to get bashed for this but I have the severe urge to ASK IT ANYAY, and I will! *Gets into the protective position*
Alright, have any of you guys told your Mom/Dad that you were going one place with some friends or something and ended up going somewhere else with your mate?
I'm in a bit of a rut on that because my parents are kind of protective, but not as much as they used to be. Zach wanted to rent a hotel room and asked me if I could tell my parents that I'd be staying the night at a friends house but the thing is, I have 99% guy friends and the few girl friends that I have, my parents would be suspicious over because they know I like Zach a lot and I've never mentioned any of my female friends. I may be spending the afternoon with him Friday and we could totally rent a hotel room but it's a waste of time and money to do that if you're just going to use it for sex for a few hours and pack up and leave, so I'm stuck there too.
All I need is a place with a shower and a bed and Zach and I could do "things" but my house is out of the option and we don't know if his parents are going to be home.
This sucks!
Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Alright, have any of you guys told your Mom/Dad that you were going one place with some friends or something and ended up going somewhere else with your mate?This sucks!
Wow.....seeing something like this takes me back aways. Um, been there-done that. Kel, if the opportunity doesn't present itself, tis no biggie. You will always find opportunities to bump uglies. 😬
However, based on the fact that you recently split w/ Daniel, and how fast you're moving into this w/ Matt...... is either a piece of meat, or your rebound. It is more important for you to distinguish which. Once you know, you will better off mentally and psychologically. 😉
Originally posted by BobbyD
Wow.....seeing something like this takes me back aways. Um, been there-done that. Kel, if the opportunity doesn't present itself, tis no biggie. You will always find opportunities to bump uglies. 😬However, based on the fact that you recently split w/ Daniel, and how fast you're moving into this w/ Matt...... is either a piece of meat, or your rebound. It is more important for you to distinguish which. Once you know, you will better off mentally and psychologically. 😉