Originally posted by BobbyD
This (the above) may true anyway. But, like many others here have said, talk to her. The uncertainty of waiting and not having your answer is actually worse than rejection. On top of that, what if she is waiting to confront these same feelings? Also, your stalling may cause her to explore other options. 😬I have in faith in you, kid. Go get her. And if you crash n' burn, no biggie. ....builds tolerance to rejection, and you'll be more confident in the future in these circumstances.
You are in a win-win situation. Only good things can happen here, bud.
I guess so . . Thanks.
Re: In Love?
Originally posted by Vegas
I think I'm in love . . .That girl I kissed New Years . . . I've known her for three years and we are best friends, but I think this kiss changed everything. After it, we spent the rest of the night cuddling and she got jealous when this other girl sat on my lap and such.
The whole Male/Female best friend scenario always has a little bit of attractive tension, but everytime I see her, it makes my entire day. I cannot look into her eyes without feeling extreme happiness or bliss.
I think she feels the same way, but I'm not sure.
How should I approach this?
I think you should tell her how you feel about her. This kind of reminds me of a thing happening in my life at the moment. Basciully I really like this girl the only thing she has a boyfriend. I have never truly felt this way about a girl before. Like you I can`t stop thinking about her. And even if I talk to her for a few seconds a day I feel really happy. She has shown me kind of good signs like smiling at me when ever I come and talk to her. And when I asked her to the prom she would not stop saying sorry to me when she said she could not go. What I am doing about this is just telling her how I feel about her. Sorry about going on about my own problem here but this is what I would do and you should to. And don`t worry I think you are going down the right route. I think she seems to really like you.
Good Luck. 🙂