Advice on Love and Romance...

Always treat a woman like a person and respect her as more then an object.

Originally posted by Eclipso
Always treat a woman like a person and respect her as more then an object.

Originally posted by Eclipso
"A woman is like a beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one !"

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Originally posted by Storm
Splitting the bill is accepted as a natural act by me. If I offer to pay the bill, don' t refuse. We live in the noughties and I am secure enough to treat a man to dinner.

Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

I was qouting Homer Simpson for fun 😂

Be open to trying new things and try to never complain, constructive criticism is key because nobody wants to spend two hours sitting across from someone listening about how Sally from accounting gives you dirty looks when you wear skirts, or how your car door gets stuck when you try to open it, or how your water is not cold enough and the new sushi place you two decided to try is gross.

Remember to compliment your significant other, but be sincere, things like "That was really sweet of you when you sent me that text message," etc encourages people to treat you nicely and not neglect the little things. Not to mention everyone needs a confidence boast every now and then, even if it's something like "Your eyes look gorgeous when you wear that colour."

Don't let the insignificant things bother you, say the other person is late for your date, or cancels last minute because something came up. Be understanding, things happen nowadays, I mean don't let it become a habit so that they feel it's alright to neglect you, but pick your battles, because sometimes things do actually come up that people can't get out of, and it's more attractive when someone is understanding and willing to give someone another chance, then when they fly into a rage because the other is stuck in traffic 10 minutes longer than expected.

Most importantly never hog the limelight and go on about yourself, and your crappy ay, your problems with your mother, your recent weight loss etc. Everyone likes to talk about themselves, let the other person have an equal chance and make sure to really listen and pay attention so you're able to ask follow up questions and the other person knows you're not just trying to get into their pants. 😬

be yourself, dont make a fool of yourself trying to be someone else, eventually your true self will come out and what then?

Always be willing to listen to their needs. But make sure they do the same for you.

save yourself some sanity and don't choose someone who won't choose you.

Never think beyond the first date.

Alright Saturday I will be leaving for a trip to Alabama with my cousin and will be gone for a week. I read my boyfriend's ex girlfriends page and looked at one of her comments and one of them was that he wanted to hang out with her Sunday and said that they should hang out together and she should come over.

I absolutely trust Sebastian with my life and know that he would never cheat on me but....I mean, how would you feel if you knew that this was going on? He never mentioned it to me. I sent him a Myspace comment telling him that I read that comment and that I trust him and know that he wouldn't do anything to hurt me and if he did then I would do something worse than bad.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I am so...I don't know how to describe it. I'm sick to my stomach at the thought of it though I shouldn't be at all! What do I do?

You always have relationship problems.

You definitely know how to choose 'em don't you? 😬

It all depends on what terms him and his ex broke things off. If they're still friends and everything, you'll just have to trust him.

If they broke up and had nothing to do with each other and all of a sudden he's asking her to come over then you need to pump those breaks and get everything out on the table instead of asking KMC Strangers what you should do.

Capiche?

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Then why bother coming into a "advice" board instead of telling me not to come in here and ask for advice?

Compromise
Trust
Remind each other you love each other, with words or thoughtful gifts, whatever.

Works for me!

Originally posted by Yuna_And_Tidus
Alright Saturday I will be leaving for a trip to Alabama with my cousin and will be gone for a week. I read my boyfriend's ex girlfriends page and looked at one of her comments and one of them was that he wanted to hang out with her Sunday and said that they should hang out together and she should come over.

I absolutely trust Sebastian with my life and know that he would never cheat on me but....I mean, how would you feel if you knew that this was going on? He never mentioned it to me. I sent him a Myspace comment telling him that I read that comment and that I trust him and know that he wouldn't do anything to hurt me and if he did then I would do something worse than bad.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I am so...I don't know how to describe it. I'm sick to my stomach at the thought of it though I shouldn't be at all! What do I do?

Originally posted by Yuna_And_Tidus
Then why bother coming into a "advice" board instead of telling me not to come in here and ask for advice?

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Never call your girlfriend on the phone while you are having sex 😱

Don't just be nice to them, treat their friends nice too, otherwise they'll think that you're putting on an act. If you are what are you doing?

Before you meet her parents, find out what they want you to be and spend a fews days learning to fake it.

Never ever ever under any circumstances under god tell her "Don't worry honey, there's just more of you to love." The response to this will be her showing you just how much more of her there is to hit you.

If you get married, remember two things you'll need to survive, Vodka and a very nice mistress.