Originally posted by Seraphim XIII
But it's okay. I can handle this. Those who cannot should not even be in this group in the first place, really. We're going to receive as much negative feedback and treatment as we do positive.
I don't think that's quite fair, to be honest. Because I refuse to 'handle' the bullshit doesn't mean I'm incapable and shouldn't mean I was never right for the group... you're proving various points against you by saying something like that. Almost as if, to be a part of TFT, one has to have certain characteristics and strengths.
I am aware that this is not your intention but you should also be aware of how some comments may be construed. And before anyone says that I'm jumping sides, I'm not. I just think it's a pity things had to end up like this and I don't want to be caught in the crossfire.
Social groups should be just that, social. Not elitist or geared towards making some people feel ostracised and others elevated.