Materalistic and Manipulative

Originally posted by chithappens
You guys are acting the exact same way you accuse Czarina of acting. If she has not brought it up, then drop it.

It makes you all look like asses to spew out "black people" when she didn't say it. Just from that, one could may a case you are being as hypocritical as she was in other threads.

I don't even disagree with everything she said previously, it is just waaaay too extreme and generalized in spots.

So, let's please get back on topic...war

i wasn't being a hypocrite on those other threads 😠 , nice way to stick up for me but insult me at the same time, hahahahah, very funny.

Well I said in spots. I'm trying. bag

Originally posted by chithappens
Well I said in spots. I'm trying. bag

flowers

Originally posted by Czarina_Czarina
that's probably b/c you like me and your gay, so you MUST think i am a guy in order to feel complete about this, it's ok! 😱

Originally posted by SpunkySmurph
That was horrible. 😐

If he liked you... he wouldn't be gay. And he wouldn't need to picture you as a guy to "feel complete" about that. Unless your insult is that he's a closet straight person...

Originally posted by Darth Macabre
That was terrible, but it did it's job in making me feel bad: except, of course, I feel bad for you, rather than for me. 😛 😆

sorry for making u feel bad:

group

Originally posted by Czarina_Czarina
flowers

Originally posted by chithappens
coke

🙂

Originally posted by FeceMan
Gypsies?

an awesome gypsy?

Originally posted by Czarina_Czarina
What would you do if you were with someone who was both materalistic and manipulative? What if you married someone like that, what would you do?

Could someone like that make you feel like they are beneath you?

What if you had a friend who was like this, and convinced you to stay away from your other friends b/c they want more control over your life?

i have a female friend like this although she doesn't have the intelligence to keep it covert and so we all see through it and just humour her

she is also highly narrcissistic in that everything she does has to have some benefit to her and she has little or no empathy towards other people...she also as a very high opinion of herself...

but she's a friends so what can you do?

Pimpslap that hoe.That'll put her in her place...

Originally posted by jaden101
i have a female friend like this although she doesn't have the intelligence to keep it covert and so we all see through it and just humour her

she is also highly narrcissistic in that everything she does has to have some benefit to her and she has little or no empathy towards other people...she also as a very high opinion of herself...

but she's a friends so what can you do?

maybe she's obvious b/c she is among friends, so why hide your true self around true friends.

Originally posted by Czarina_Czarina
What would you do if you were with someone who was both materalistic and manipulative? What if you married someone like that, what would you do?

Could someone like that make you feel like they are beneath you?

What if you had a friend who was like this, and convinced you to stay away from your other friends b/c they want more control over your life?

1) I would stop being with that person.

2) I would never marry someone like that.

3) No someone like that would make me feel superior for not being like that.

4) I would not be friends with that person in the first place so it's a moot point.

Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
How about invisible people? They don't have any color.

2 words that describe 95% of all women.

Originally posted by BobbyD
2 words that describe 95% of all women.

... that would be humans, not just women

Originally posted by BobbyD
2 words that describe 95% of all women.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Not necessarily. Many men want to hold on to their money. They feel that they are their money. And if you reject the man, then they will make sure, or at least try, to keep it all. It's an ego thing and a self worth identification problem. Too much importance is put on such things instead of fairness, time, quality, and time spent. Men will go to any expense to exclude and subjugate the other to benefit themselves. Especially if he holds the money card, most likely he may win.

Yes and no, Deb. Inherintly speaking, it's in a woman blood to find the most attractive suitor to bind to who can provide for her (regardless of interests/preferences). We are no different than animals. You can't blame yourselves for it. It is what you are. Just like 95% of all men are selfish and insensitive. I know it. Do I care? No, because that's just being a man. It is what it is.

I'm talking in generalities too, but not far from the mark at all. You can take a generous, giving, senstive man (in the big picture), and a woman will still find him very selfish and insensitive.

Getting back to the topic, in a woman's quest to find the most attractive suitor (to fulfull her desire and needs...motherhood, $easy lifestyle$, etc) she will do what she must (manipulate/lure via sex, cooking, etc) to convince a man that she is right for him.

Question: take 2, IDENTICAL, GOOD-LOOKING men, and 100 women.

a) One is poor, has a fair career, works hard (is likely to actually be the nicer person too), can seldom take a women out to dinner and buy her bling
b) The other is rich, has a great career, golfs 3 times a week, drives a Ferrari, lives in a $1m home

Who are the women going to crawl and scratch each other's eyes over to get to, and persuade, manipulate, lie, to get?

Originally posted by BobbyD
Yes and no, Deb. Inherintly speaking, it's in a woman blood to find the most attractive suitor to bind to who can provide for her (regardless of interests/preferences). We are no different than animals. You can't blame yourselves for it. It is what you are. Just like 95% of all men are selfish and insensitive. I know it. Do I care? No, because that's just being a man. It is what it is.

I'm talking in generalities too, but not far from the mark at all. You can take a generous, giving, senstive man (in the big picture), and a woman will still find him very selfish and insensitive.

Getting back to the topic, in a woman's quest to find the most attractive suitor (to fulfull her desire and needs...motherhood, $easy lifestyle$, etc) she will do what she must (manipulate/lure via sex, cooking, etc) to convince a man that she is right for him.

Question: take 2, IDENTICAL, GOOD-LOOKING men, and 100 women.

a) One is poor, has a fair career, works hard (is likely to actually be the nicer person too), can seldom take a women out to dinner and buy her bling
b) The other is rich, has a great career, golfs 3 times a week, drives a Ferrari, lives in a $1m home

Who are the women going to crawl and scratch each other's eyes over to get to, and persuade, manipulate, lie, to get?

And where does the vanity of men ever come in? That was so sexist 😆

Originally posted by chithappens
And where does the vanity of men ever come in? That was so sexist 😆

Hey, I called us (guys) selfish, insensitive beasts. 😉