Originally posted by Charmed_Phoebe
hmmm interesting theories you got there, however they did not help me and will not help me. You say you don't care what happens, you just let your emotions go....what would happen if everyone you loved died? Would you say so what there are tons of other people to love? I think not.
I do care what happens. If my family died, I would suffer for a very long time.
But I would eventually move on. I can't dwell in misery for the rest of my life. I would probably cry every single day for the rest of my life, but only for a short time each day.
I would owe it to my family to be strong, and move forward, and be content.
Think about it: Your grandparents.
They don't have thier mother or father anymore. They may have deceased brothers or sisters, or none at all.
But they still have thier son or daughter, and you and your brothers, sisters, neices and nephews.
Thier old family is gone, but they have a new one whom they love just as much.
Life changes and that is the truth. As long as you still Love, you will still find Love.
I beleive in the Law of Attraction. Look it up, because it would take me too long to explain.
You must stay positive. The absolute truth is that you have the power to make yoursself happy, and no one else does. Not your mother, father, son, daughter, lover, etc.
Only you can be responsible for your own happiness.