So what was I supposed to do break down and cry like a little *****? Get pissed and do something to ruin my life, or get the **** over it and not let it effect me because its only one part of my life?
If you can't be friends with your significant other then you shouldn't be in the dating game. They're happy and I cared about their feelings then even though it hurt.
If you can't be treasure your significant other's happiness above all else then you're not really in love with them.
Some of us know how to think with our heads and not our dicks.
Originally posted by Creshosk
So what was I supposed to do break down and cry like a little *****? Get pissed and do something to ruin my life, or get the **** over it and not let it effect me because its only one part of my life?If you can't be friends with your significant other then you shouldn't be in the dating game. They're happy and I cared about their feelings then even though it hurt.
If you can't be treasure your significant other's happiness above all else then you're not really in love with them.
Some of us know how to think with our heads and not our dicks.
How are we thinking with our dicks?
Your best friend ****ed your girlfriend, someone who should never do some shit like that, he betrays you and steals your girlfriend all at the same time. Your best friend is supposed to be there for you, not **** you over. I would get over it, but those two would be out of my life.
Oh and the moment they cheat on you, you should never refer to them as your significant other.
Originally posted by RölandOr whatever body part would cause you to think of violence and not the consequences of that violence.
How are we thinking with our dicks?
Originally posted by RölandYeah it hurt, and it took me a year to be able to talk to them again. and I still don't talk to them as much as I used to. but I'm glad that I did. Because I've still benefited from remaining in contact with them.
Your best friend ****ed your girlfriend, someone who should never do some shit like that, he betrays you and stole your woman all at the same time. Your best friend is supposed to be there for you, not **** you over. I would get over it, but those two would be out of my life.
Originally posted by RölandNo obviously not. at that point she wasn't. But I still cared about her feelings and her well being.
Oh and the moment they cheat on you, you should never refer to them as your significant other.
Way I see it he also did me a favor and took her off my hands. I was thinking of marrying her at that point. better the betrayal then than later.
Originally posted by Creshosk
Or whatever body part would cause you to think of violence and not the consequences of that violence.Yeah it hurt, and it took me a year to be able to talk to them again. and I still don't talk to them as much as I used to. but I'm glad that I did. Because I've still benefited from remaining in contact with them.
No obviously not. at that point she wasn't. But I still cared about her feelings and her well being.
Way I see it he also did me a favor and took her off my hands. I was thinking of marrying her at that point. better the betrayal then than later.
I never said I'd do violence. lol
Man I could never forgive a betrayal like that. I've remained friends with one of my ex's but if my best friend had done that I would cease all contact with both of them.
I guess I see your point there, but still...... sounds like he was thinking about himself then about his friend.
Originally posted by RölandBy the reverse of the same token, I was his best friend. Would I have been much better if I had only thought of myself?
I never said I'd do violence. lolMan I could never forgive a betrayal like that. I've remained friends with one of my ex's but if my best friend had done that I would cease all contact with both of them.
I guess I see your point there, but still...... sounds like he was thinking about himself then about his friend.
Yeah it hurt like hell, but what's harder? To be able to face them again, to forgive and move on? Or to run and hide, cut them out of your life and pretend they don't exist?
Originally posted by Creshosk
By the reverse of the same token, I was his best friend. Would I have been much better if I had only thought of myself?Yeah it hurt like hell, but what's harder? To be able to face them again, to forgive and move on? Or to run and hide, cut them out of your life and pretend they don't exist?
But this friend of yours totally stabbed you in the back and hurt you in the worst way imaginable. You should have had every right to think about yourself. You were the one who was hurt.
That shouldn't come up in your mind when that happens, he knew what he was doing. He knew that if and when you found out it would hurt like hell, yet he went along and did it. You have been a good guy to forgive him but what does that say about your friend?
Originally posted by RölandIndeed I was. and I decided to be the bigger man... after a year...
But this friend of yours totally stabbed you in the back and hurt you in the worst way imaginable. You should have had every right to think about yourself. You were the one who was hurt.
Originally posted by RölandNot very nice things. But meh, I got over it. It took a year, but I didn't let it stop me.
That shouldn't come up in your mind when that happens, he knew what he was doing. He knew that if and when you found out it would hurt like hell, yet he went along and did it. You have been a good guy to forgive him but what does that say about your friend?
Originally posted by Creshosk
Indeed I was. and I decided to be the bigger man... after a year...Not very nice things. But meh, I got over it. It took a year, but I didn't let it stop me.
I guess looking at it, I could forgive them, but my trust factor would be shot down.
Well that's awesome you could do that man, I would have to take a long time to decide if I wanted to do that.