Your girlfriend/boyfriend has sex with someone else....

Originally posted by Robtard
Yea, yea, yea... Talking out of your ass and claiming "higher ground" is for ****heads.

Well, revenge can you satisfaction; that is a fact. You're also mixing revenge and hate... just isn't so. You can plan revenge and take revenge without being this "tortured hateful soul" you seem to think is necessary. Shit does happen, taking revenge is one way of "moving on"... and in this case, his "best friend" would learn from it.

Originally posted by Robtard
You're right, you shouldn't have cried like a b!tch or attacked them, that isn't the issue. You did the right thing by walking away.

The question is, how can you be friends with them (if that is the case), especially your "best friend" after he back stabbed you? The girl doesn't really matter, girls will come and go in your life; **** her... but a best friend ****ing you over like that?

That's the same problem I had with his post. I just couldn't understand how he could remain "best" friends with those two individuals and be happy that they got married.

I mean seriously, the two of them knew what they were doing and knew if he found out it could be devastating, yet went ahead and did it anyway. That's not what I would call a "best" friend and I am amazed the situation hasn't changed how he thinks about them.

Originally posted by debbiejo
I said friends or at least cordial. I am not sure I could be friends in the beginning of course. This has been done to me, and I have done this also. It's just life. I am always open and honest though. I was in a situation once like this, but I did go up to the friend first and asked if it was okay if I could see her boyfriend. I am always up front. If someone does it behind my back, then I'd be more pissed at the time. But best friends only come around far and few between. I view it this way. If they come to me and explain it to me to help me then I am more okay with that.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Revenge is only temporaly satisfaction. Yeah, do it. Do you think if they don't care that it would make you feel better? NO, you would only think and dwell on it more to make them suffer more. In this way it is you that cannot move on. It is YOU that are trapped in the past. It is YOU that are suffering. It is YOU that are in your own hell.

You're talking out of your ass again... It is possible to seek revenge for a misdeed and still be "moving on" with your life. You're also taking the stance and viewpoint of an emotional and illogical woman and thinking that is the only possible way for the dynamics of revenge to work; just isn't so.

revenge is pointless. what does it solve?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
you cant go from being a couple to being best friends. just like if you go from being best friends to being a couple, and things go sour, the friendship is over.

Originally posted by Röland
That's the same problem I had with his post. I just couldn't understand how he could remain "best" friends with those two individuals and be happy that they got married.

I mean seriously, the two of them knew what they were doing and knew if he found out it could be devastating, yet went ahead and did it anyway. That's not what I would call a "best" friend and I am amazed the situation hasn't changed how he thinks about them.

If you have really, really lousy friends it might qualify...

How could you seriously just accept anything like that? I would have never talked to either one of them again.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
revenge is pointless. what does it solve?

In this specific case, it would [possibly] give Creshok the satisfaction of returning his supposed best friend's slap in the face/betrayal. More importantly, it would [possibly] teach that "best friend" a lesson in life.

Which is, YOU DON'T STAB A BEST FRIEND IN THE BACK. (at least not guys, women have their own set of rules)

Originally posted by Robtard
In this specific case, it would [possibly] give Creshok the satisfaction of returning his supposed best friends slap in the face/betrayal. More importantly, it would [possibly] teach that "best friend" a lesson in life. Which is, YOU DON'T STAB A BEST FRIEND IN THE BACK.

in that case, revenge is goooooood. 😈

Originally posted by Fishy
If you have really, really lousy friends it might qualify...

How could you seriously just accept anything like that? I would have never talked to either one of them again.

I could never just accept it either Fishy. I am sure I could get over it but that best friend would cease to be my best friend and that girl would cease to be in my life at all.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
oh, you mean revenge on the guy who caused the break up. I thought you meant revenge on your ex.

in that case, revenge is goooooood. 😈

Exactly, the girlfriend doesn't really matter; I made that clear... women will come and go in his life, he shouldn't waste time over a cheating b!tch.

But someone calling themselves your "best friend" and betraying you like that? A lesson needs to be taught.

He's not my best freind anymore. That's why I initially said "was". Up until I walked into that room he was. Or rather up until he started having the faintest thought about doing that. But I didn't know until I walked into that room.

I'm not interested in putting any kind of energy into hurting another person like that. To teach him a lesson like that would make me worse than him. They're married now. If history ever repeats and she cheats on him there will be no blood on my hands. its not worth my time or effort to try and "get back at them". How would I benefit from hurting other people like that?

Originally posted by Robtard
Exactly, the girlfriend doesn't really matter; I made that clear... women will come and go in his life, he shouldn't waste time over a cheating b!tch.

Originally posted by Creshosk
He's not my best freind anymore. That's why I initially said "was". Up until I walked into that room he was. Or rather up until he started having the faintest thought about doing that. But I didn't know until I walked into that room.

I'm not interested in putting any kind of energy into hurting another person like that. To teach him a lesson like that would make me worse than him. They're married now. If history ever repeats and she cheats on him there will be no blood on my hands. its not worth my time or effort to try and "get back at them". How would I benefit from hurting other people like that?

You wouldn't, I still don't see how you could ever talk to them again... Really if I were betrayed like that I would never ever want to see either one of them. Let alone stand that I'd be happy for them.

If she would have had the decency to end the relation and he would have had the decency to talk to me before ****ing her, after the relationship had already ended, then sure be happy or whatever but never in a situation like this.

Originally posted by Robtard
You're talking out of your ass again... It is possible to seek revenge for a misdeed and still be "moving on" with your life. You're also taking the stance and viewpoint of an emotional and illogical woman and thinking that is the only possible way for the dynamics of revenge to work; just isn't so.

Also notice that I don't resort to labeling and calling names, yet you do. It's the Ego that is your worst enemy. Tame it.

Honestly, if my GF cheated on me, I would probably f*ck up my life. I have anger problems andif I just walked in on them I don't want to know what I would do.

Originally posted by Creshosk
He's not my best freind anymore. That's why I initially said "was". Up until I walked into that room he was. Or rather up until he started having the faintest thought about doing that. But I didn't know until I walked into that room.

I'm not interested in putting any kind of energy into hurting another person like that. To teach him a lesson like that would make me worse than him. They're married now. If history ever repeats and she cheats on him there will be no blood on my hands. its not worth my time or effort to try and "get back at them". How would I benefit from hurting other people like that?

Alright then, that was the issue I had, that he was still your "best friend", or even a friend for that matter.

That's fine too, walking away and cleaning yourself of them is sensible. It's more of teaching an ******* who called himself your "best friend" more so than you benefiting from harming them.

Originally posted by Violent2Dope
Honestly, if my GF cheated on me, I would probably f*ck up my life. I have anger problems andif I just walked in on them I don't want to know what I would do.

Originally posted by Fishy
You wouldn't, I still don't see how you could ever talk to them again... Really if I were betrayed like that I would never ever want to see either one of them. Let alone stand that I'd be happy for them.

If she would have had the decency to end the relation and he would have had the decency to talk to me before ****ing her, after the relationship had already ended, then sure be happy or whatever but never in a situation like this.

Creshosk, how the hell can you just still be friends with two people that betrayed you like that? And be happy for them?