What matters more...

So I have all guy friends. Seriously. Like... alot of them. My parents are trying to convince me that I need to hang out with more chicks. I don't like the girls here... But anyways. I complain sometimes that no guy is ever interested in me, which my two best friends say is complete bull shit... and it is. But I'm talking about like.. a guy that I'm interested in.

My friends are trying to convince me that it doesn't matter what they look like as long as they have an awesome personality 😐 Okay... yea I wouldn't date a hot self centered douche... doesn't mean they don't spark an interest. But I'm not going to date a 'Grade A' Ugo who buys me flowers and candy and confesses his undying love to me every single day *shivers*.

I'm a really complex person 😊 I don't like mooshy guys but I don't like jackasses either... BUT I think that looks do matter more than personality. They said that thats a really shallow way to look at things but I mean seriously... come on. Who would really want to date a guy who looks like a troll on meth? I need to be attracted to the guy physically.

I think looks matter more than personality. By just a smidge though.

I think looks matter more than personality as well. But personality still plays a huge role when you are with someone.

When you are single and looking to meet a guy/girl, what do you look for first? You look for a person who is pleasing to YOUR eye. Unless you can read minds, you usually know next to nothing about this person. I think it's natural, when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend, to look at their physical traits first. People want to enjoy what they can see and touch.

To be honest I can't stand when people label other people as shallow. It makes no sense. I'm single right now and when I go back for my second year of school I'm going to look for girls I find attractive, I'm not going to be like "Well maybe that girl's personality is better then how attractive I find her." How can I say that when I know nothing about said girl? It would be like going all in before the flop blind. You have no idea what cards are going to come up and 90% of the time you get burned.

I bolded the I's and YOUR because I don't like to say people are ugly, rather I like to think different people find different traits attractive.

Hey, I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothing. But I think Unicorns Kick ass.

Originally posted by Da Rev
Hey, I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothing. But I think Unicorns Kick ass.

*waits for Barker, Mist, Kramer, Thorinn to call you queer* jockey

Originally posted by Röland
I think looks matter more than personality as well. But personality still plays a huge role when you are with someone.

When you are single and looking to meet a guy/girl, what do you look for first? You look for a person who is pleasing to [b]YOUR eye. Unless you can read minds, you usually know next to nothing about this person. I think it's natural, when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend, to look at their physical traits first. People want to enjoy what they can see and touch.

To be honest I can't stand when people label other people as shallow. It makes no sense. I'm single right now and when I go back for my second year of school I'm going to look for girls I find attractive, I'm not going to be like "Well maybe that girl's personality is better then how attractive I find her." How can I say that when I know nothing about said girl? It would be like going all in before the flop blind. You have no idea what cards are going to come up and 90% of the time you get burned.

I bolded the I's and YOUR because I don't like to say people are ugly, rather I like to think different people find different traits attractive. [/B]

Originally posted by Da Rev
Hey, I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothing. But I think Unicorns Kick ass.

Personality should matter more, but usually looks matter more when finding someone. But then, if the person with looks has bad personality then that doesn't work, either, so it's kinda a combination.

btw, we have the same birthday. w00t

Originally posted by Ronny
Hey, I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothin'. But I'd really like to make love to you tonight.

Personality. dancing

The biggest part looks play in any relationship are during its begining stages.It is looks that determine whether or not you'd bother approaching a person. It is the physical representation of the said person that we will fully take in upon encountering, guaranteed. It may lead on to something more, and it may be the only thing we see of this person.

After that, the importance of looks in the opposite sex depends on what you want. If its physical activity you're interested in, looks will be THE deciding factor. If its a long serious relationship that you fancy, you'll automatically cut more than enough slack regarding your partner's physical appearance.

Originally posted by Da Rev
I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothin', but I think Depeche Mode is a sweet band!

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
The biggest part looks play in [B]any relationship are during its begining stages.It is looks that determine whether or not you'd bother approaching a person. It is the physical representation of the said person that we will fully take in upon encountering, guaranteed. It may lead on to something more, and it may be the only thing we see of this person.

After that, the importance of looks in the opposite sex depends on what you want. If its physical activity you're interested in, looks will be THE deciding factor. If its a long serious relationship that you fancy, you'll automatically cut more than enough slack regarding your partner's physical appearance. [/B]

Coldplay suck.

Originally posted by Ronny
So I have all guy friends. Seriously. Like... alot of them. My parents are trying to convince me that I need to hang out with more chicks. I don't like the girls here... But anyways. I complain sometimes that no guy is ever interested in me, which my two best friends say is complete bull shit... and it is. But I'm talking about like.. a guy that I'm interested in.

My friends are trying to convince me that it doesn't matter what they look like as long as they have an awesome personality 😐 Okay... yea I wouldn't date a hot self centered douche... doesn't mean they don't spark an interest. But I'm not going to date a [b]'Grade A' Ugo who buys me flowers and candy and confesses his undying love to me every single day *shivers*.

I'm a really complex person 😊 I don't like mooshy guys but I don't like jackasses either... BUT I think that looks do matter more than personality. They said that thats a really shallow way to look at things but I mean seriously... come on. Who would really want to date a guy who looks like a troll on meth? I need to be attracted to the guy physically.

I think looks matter more than personality. By just a smidge though. [/B]

Originally posted by Da Rev
Hey, I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothing. But I think Unicorns Kick ass.

Dude, I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothin', but I think you got a hot ass!

Hey, I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothin', but I think Ronny is ****ing sexy. 131

Originally posted by Impediment
Hey, I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothin', but I think Ronny is ****ing sexy. 131

Lights are on. It's stable, Captain, Woohoo! Let's see some ****in' action!

Originally posted by Impediment
Hey, I don't wanna sound like a queer or nothin', but I think Ronny is ****ing sexy. 131

OMFG, you're such a queer! oh

Balance between the two will make it stable. But in long run thinking personality matters more. You can always change apperance a little by encouragement but you can't change a persons personality unless you torture them 😛

Looks do not last forever 🙂

A personality on the other hand might 😉

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
[b]Looks do not last forever 🙂

A personality on the other hand might 😉 [/B]

Regardless of what people say, and I am sure a lot of people will probably think me as shallow and deny it, but looks are important. They are not all that matters, but they are important.

Looks are what attract you to a person in the first place. This does not ring true for EVERY relationship. But, looks are what make you want to talk to and be with that person. A personality is what keeps you there. Sure, trophy wives are nice, but I would probably take my own life if I was to spend my life with somebody who could not carry on a decent or halfway meaningful conversation about real life issues.

So, looks are important, but personality matters more.