Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
luckily I have both. 😉
Luckily you do 😄
I shall give my opinion about looks and personality now 😉
Some people consider look important while others do not. I myself consider look not important at all. As Mr. Smallville here mentioned about approaching the person I sure as water would much rather walk up to some Irish hottie than some Swedish geek looking guy. That is me being shallow, but it is also mainly the me that used to me. A year back I changed and now I walk up to interesting people instead of the ones with the look.
If I see a game of chess between two guys for example. I probably would stop and watch for a minute. I am not a shy person and it would probably end up with me walking over to them and start a conversation. I am not fond in chess but I am fond in people playing chess 😛
Anyway. If speaking to the two, I do not go by look. I go by how talkative and mannered they are. How much they talk and about what 😛
I could go on and tell about all the abilities I seek in a boy but it would only be lengthening a post that probably very few reads anyway and a waste of my time 😄
My point is that look is not what makes me approach a person. Not anymore 🙂
I do not mind waking up a morning to see someone with facial errors. Someone that is physicaly damaged or.... I could probably even put up with someone bold. For as long as they act nice 🙂
Falling for the look of a person will only let you down. Inside lasts while look fades 🙂
Originally posted by SmallvilleI agree, but hardly anyone will agree with this. "Why cant I find a nice guy?" women ask. Because they are, either openly or subliminally, looking at the outer package. Men do the same.
Regardless of what people say, and I am sure a lot of people will probably think me as shallow and deny it, but looks [b]are important. They are not all that matters, but they are important.Looks are what attract you to a person in the first place. This does not ring true for EVERY relationship. But, looks are what make you want to talk to and be with that person. A personality is what keeps you there. Sure, trophy wives are nice, but I would probably take my own life if I was to spend my life with somebody who could not carry on a decent or halfway meaningful conversation about real life issues.
So, looks are important, but personality matters more. [/B]
Originally posted by RonnyPersonality trumps looks, that's for sure. But both is always better.
So I have all guy friends. Seriously. Like... alot of them. My parents are trying to convince me that I need to hang out with more chicks. I don't like the girls here... But anyways. I complain sometimes that no guy is ever interested in me, which my two best friends say is complete bull shit... and it is. But I'm talking about like.. a guy that I'm interested in.My friends are trying to convince me that it doesn't matter what they look like as long as they have an awesome personality 😐 Okay... yea I wouldn't date a hot self centered douche... doesn't mean they don't spark an interest. But I'm not going to date a [b]'Grade A' Ugo
who buys me flowers and candy and confesses his undying love to me every single day *shivers*.I'm a really complex person 😊 I don't like mooshy guys but I don't like jackasses either... BUT I think that looks do matter more than personality. They said that thats a really shallow way to look at things but I mean seriously... come on. Who would really want to date a guy who looks like a troll on meth? I need to be attracted to the guy physically.
I think looks matter more than personality. By just a smidge though. [/B]
And you're not complicated darling. That's basically how everyone is.
Except for the weirdos ermm
Originally posted by Wild-Cherry
If someone has a great personality, it will generally make them look better on the outside as well.
This is very true. Regardless of a persons outward appearance, if they have a personality that compliments yours, then they will grow to be attractive to you.
The same can be said about the opposite. If you have conflicting personalities, then they will become less attractive outwardly. You will notice small things about their physical appearance that you never did before, and they will become pug fugly.
I know this from experience.
Originally posted by Smallville
This is very true. Regardless of a persons outward appearance, if they have a personality that compliments yours, then they will grow to be attractive to you.The same can be said about the opposite. If you have conflicting personalities, then they will become less attractive outwardly. You will notice small things about their physical appearance that you never did before, and they will become pug fugly.
I know this from experience.
I agree wholeheartedly.
Originally posted by Wild-Cherry
Well, I was attracted to my boyfriend by his personality [b]and his looks. Now, though, He looks like the most attractive man in the world to me...I guess what I'm trying to say is that; If someone has a great personality, it will generally make them look better on the outside as well. [/B]
that is soo true.
biologically, the mind is designed such that repeated exposure of something makes you like it more. So even if the face we behold isn't very fortunately physically proportioned, which visual beauty in its simplest form is supposed to be; symmetrical, over time our sight gets used to the asymmetry and the features look beautiful to us.
that is why the people we love tend to look the most attractive to us, regardless of their objective physical appearance. my mom will always look like the most beautiful woman to me. my baby sis the cutest.
its all in how my brain is used to seeing their faces and is so comfortable and accustomed to them. human condition is more complex than a catagorization of ugly people vs beautiful people. we all come in different shapes and sizes and somehow everyone finds people to love and connect with by the end. 😊
Originally posted by Röland
*waits for Barker, Mist, Kramer, Thorinn to call you queer* jockey
I heard the word queer and I came jockey
Originally posted by Ronny
So I have all guy friends. Seriously. Like... alot of them. My parents are trying to convince me that I need to hang out with more chicks. I don't like the girls here... But anyways. I complain sometimes that no guy is ever interested in me, which my two best friends say is complete bull shit... and it is. But I'm talking about like.. a guy that I'm interested in.My friends are trying to convince me that it doesn't matter what they look like as long as they have an awesome personality 😐 Okay... yea I wouldn't date a hot self centered douche... doesn't mean they don't spark an interest. But I'm not going to date a [b]'Grade A' Ugo
who buys me flowers and candy and confesses his undying love to me every single day *shivers*.I'm a really complex person 😊 I don't like mooshy guys but I don't like jackasses either... BUT I think that looks do matter more than personality. They said that thats a really shallow way to look at things but I mean seriously... come on. Who would really want to date a guy who looks like a troll on meth? I need to be attracted to the guy physically.
I think looks matter more than personality. By just a smidge though. [/B]
Its easy, you just sleep with each and every one of them, then pick the guy with the biggest wang 😱