Looks don't matter. I'm a firm believer that love is blind and that's how it should be. No one has the right to be shallow and head for looks because in the end it all spells out a broken heart. That's the advantage a long distance relationship has, probably the only. That you get to listen to what's on their minds and in their hearts, without relying on looks.
Now I know that's not the situation you're in Ronny, but regardless, never listen to friends, they don't of your outcome, listen to your heart as well as your best wishes.
Originally posted by Röland
I think looks matter more than personality as well. But personality still plays a huge role when you are with someone.When you are single and looking to meet a guy/girl, what do you look for first? You look for a person who is pleasing to [b]YOUR
eye. Unless you can read minds, you usually know next to nothing about this person. I think it's natural, when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend, to look at their physical traits first. People want to enjoy what they can see and touch.To be honest I can't stand when people label other people as shallow. It makes no sense. I'm single right now and when I go back for my second year of school I'm going to look for girls I find attractive, I'm not going to be like "Well maybe that girl's personality is better then how attractive I find her." How can I say that when I know nothing about said girl? It would be like going all in before the flop blind. You have no idea what cards are going to come up and 90% of the time you get burned.
I bolded the I's and YOUR because I don't like to say people are ugly, rather I like to think different people find different traits attractive. [/B]
Oh and...you're ugly...