*bows* I do my best, texgodiva2s. 😉 Will and Jack and Liz...all we need now in that is a bit of Norrington...personally my favorite is the idea that Will and Liz are paired up together, and Jack and James are together, and as a group they all kind of just...er...switch it up. 😈 I do love slash and swinging. Don't you?
Jacksweet, and really all Sparrabethers: In conversations some friends have had with the writes, and my own brief personal contact with Ted, it's clear to me that nothing was ever going to happen with Sparrabeth except for sexual tension. SEXUAL TENSION.
Not love. Elizabeth did not love Jack -- ever. Jack was vexed by Elizabeth. He cared about her, she cared about him, but that's all there ever was. I'm not even sure I could say that Jack was truly, fully and totally in love with Elizabeth. There is no evidence of it. He was willing, far too often for my taste, to use her, and then to use her position as king to get what he wanted.
Remember, the example of voting for Elizabeth to be King was a sign of love? Now recall that Jack read the duties of what the pirate king did. Ah ha. Declare war and parley with common enemies. Ah ha! He needed both these things to happen. He needed her to declare war so the pirates would be out in the open, as per his agreement with Beckett (not saying he was planning on actually betraying everyone, he had a plan), and he needed the parley so he could get back on the Dutchman.
In voting for Elizabeth, he voted for the person who was determined to go to war, and the person he would most likely be able to manipulate --er influence -- more easily.
As I think about the 'good-bye' scene...I think that there wasn't a whole lot they could say to each other at this point. I think there is sadness, but I think it's really more awkward than anything else. These two people are not good with words when it comes to personal feelings. How do you thank someone for saving you? How do you say, "Hey I forgive you for totally killing me"? What do you say to someone that you've had fantastic adventures with and also heart-shattering loss?
You use as few words as possible to convey that you're ok, that you're ok with them, that everything will be fine -- and you don't really say good-bye. And that's what Jack and Elizabeth do. She chooses the right thing to say to Jack. Teases him, reminds him of their more innocent and fun adventure, letting him know that she's ok with him and everything that's happened. He teases her back, and for the first time they both really smile around each other. When she goes to give him that last kiss on the cheek he teases her again, which is funny but also is a sign for the audience to let us know that yeah, Jack is going to be just fine. He doesn't need or want Elizabeth to kiss him.
I concede that Jack cares about Elizabeth, and maybe at some point he felt that he possibly loved her -- but those feelings were laid to rest after he died. He was quite happily going to leave her in the Locker. Nothing that happened in the movie indicated that he was 'back' in love with her.
Last point I'll make here: Elizabeth DID NOT SETTLE!!! You can choose to see it that way to assuage your crushed feelings over Sparrabeth, but if you think about Elizabeth, she never settles. If she did, she would have married Norrington. No, she knows what she wants and she goes after it. In fact, it doesn't even seem to be a want so much as a need.
Everything she does, everything she says can be traced back to a desire to be with Will or because of Will. Everything in her world centers around Will. Man, she KILLS for him. She holds him as he stabs the heart, even knowing what it will mean for him and for her. She would rather have him one day and know he's alive but gone from her for ten years than to give him up entirely.
THAT is not settling. That is not her doing the more honorable thing. That is Elizabeth throwing everything she is into saving the life of the man that she loves. Not the man that she loves most, but the man that she loves entirely, with her whole being.