i mean if a kid u loved very much wanted to run away from home and never come back MAYBE{its illogical but if we suppose the neo christian viewpoint to be true which blames the person for being in hell and not god for creating it and the criteria for entering it} youd RESPECT his/her decision to go even though u knew it was bad for them and knowingly close ur doors to them. howver, if u still retained the type of love u had before, and the child learning her/his lesson from the streets comes back and BEGS at your doorstep to let them in. will your love NOT then make you open your doors for them? its impossible to not open your doors for them if you love them and specially if your love them PERFECTLY. so the idea of people being responsible for going and STAYING in hell is also wrong unless you {assuming this already WRONG assumption can sumhow been taken as right/true for the sake of argument}a person is so full of mailce/hatred for god that he CONTINUOUSLY chooses to be in hell of his own will knowing all truths and still staying away from god. all others who regret their decision in the least are allowed into haven by a benevolant god.