i've dated some white guyz i find them quite attractive, really didnt have any racial problems except for one. His mother thought i was a total whore because im not white so she always made racial slurs on the side, and he wouldnt say anything to her just kept quite like a little pussy. So we broke it off....****in mommas boy 🙁 I have dated quite a few blk guyz but none were toooooooo serious. And the ones i really liked already had a baby momma so i x that out. And finally one puerto ric. who was soooooooo cute and smart but he moved away and broke up with me, because of the whole Long Distance thing (at least that was his excuse)....but i think otherwise 😉
Originally posted by lil bitchinessI figure "race" might be a factor when it comes to phenotypical preferences.
Its nothing to do with 'race' in my opinion, but more with culture.For example, some South European (this includes Italians, Greeks...etc) and Middle Eastern guys have this annoying macho thing going which irritates the crap out of me.
I am guessing that if they were born and grew up in the same place, it would be more about culture than 'race'. I doubt 'race' could/would play any part.
Originally posted by Czarina_CzarinaW-why were half the guys you "dated" in relationships?
Ok, do tell of your experiences with dating, and within the same race or different race, whatever you say, I won’t put you down for it at all.I’ll tell mine and talk about the good/bad of what I found in dating period.
1. African-American guy off and on for 7 years
He wasn’t the best looking AA guy on the planet, but I was crazy about him. He was going to be an engineer, was a great student. Fun to be around and I would beat him in video games.Bad part: He told me he wanted a real black woman. Like the nutty-buddy that I am, I went out to the store and bought sun-tan lotion and got as dark as I could. The next day he saw me, he laughed at me. I was confused as to what that really meant, and he never could tell me what that was about.
2. Dated 2 Haitian guys (Caribbean)
One guy was either in the closet or very very effeminate in nature, didn’t really feel anything but social obligation to date him and was glad when we parted ways, same with the other guy, but he wasn’t effeminate, just wasn’t my type.3. Dated 2 white guys (American)
First guy, I wasn’t into him, he was playing interference b/c he knew I liked the other guy. The other guy was single, but was too busy wondering about my finances. The first guy wasn’t my type physically and was too jealous over the other guy, even though it wasn’t working out with the other guy anyway. One guy was in my differential equations class.4. Chinese guy (moved to Canada)
we worked together, he was attractive, and would sit at my table and we would talk for a long time, then, a lady kept sitting there for 4-6 hours at a time listening to us talk, that lady was his girlfriend.5. Mozambique (Africa)
we were in a differential equations or calculus 3 class, I thought he was handsome, but he was getting married. I always gave him answers to our quizzes, he hated that, even though he took the answers anyway.6. Croatia (Europe)
He use to ask me out and ask me questions that he already knew the answers to. When he told me he was married, I told him I could only date him if his wife and kids came along, he didn’t want that for some reason. He was very handsome guy.7. Two guys from India
One guy is from Bangladesh, he was going to med school. He was nice, but put me down after I gained weight, we only went on dates for him to show boat, even though I never thought I was that pretty to begin with, but he would publicly tell people that I USE to be good looking when I was skinny, which wasn’t very nice. Likable guy, but not so cool when it comes to the weight issue.Another guy was from India, wasn’t interested in him, he felt the same as the other guy who was playing interference in #3, as that was around the time I was interested in getting to know another guy from Mozambique, who was later engaged.
8. The guy who I fell in love with …
Also, I currently date a white girl from a different country...I guess similar cultures though. It's working quite well. In fact she is touching me as we speak.
Originally posted by Bardock42B!!!!!!!!! YOU FUGGING STUD!!!!!!
I figure "race" might be a factor when it comes to phenotypical preferences.W-why were half the guys you "dated" in relationships?
Also, I currently date a white girl from a different country...I guess similar cultures though. It's working quite well. In fact she is touching me as we speak.
*dances a jig in honor of Bardock* 💃
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Originally posted by ADarksideJedi
If you love that person that is all that matters.White or black or whatever.I look for personally in a guy more then anything.I don't care what color there skin is.
It does not matter.If you love that special girl or special man then go for it!JM
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It's almost always common for parents of White kids to tell them to not date Blacks or date outside your race.
I had a White girlfriend, Kelly, and her mom didn't like me cause I wasn't White. My girl told me so but said she didn't care what her mom thought. I've seen the same happen to a couple of friends.
So it's pretty common.
Originally posted by FistOfThe North😆 Nice stereotype
It's almost always common for parents of White kids to tell them to not date Blacks or date outside your race.I had a White girlfriend, Kelly, and her mom didn't like me cause I wasn't White. My girl told me so but said she didn't care what her mom thought. I've seen the same happen to a couple of friends.
So it's pretty common.
Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Are you saying I'm lying?
i think you are taking your one negative experience and making a generalization that is subtly offensive to people who don't feel that way, yet you still feel the need to make generalizations of.
For instance, a story about you being treated poorly because of your race is a good addition to the thread and a good discussion point. You saying, or even implying, that this is common for white people is both racist and a thread stopper.
Basically, have an opinion, tell your story, but I shouldn't have to skim through a thread I have not participated in to find you insinuating that I would dislike it if my child were to date someone of another race, simply because of my skin colour.
Originally posted by inimalist
Basically, have an opinion, tell your story, but I shouldn't have to skim through a thread I have not participated in to find you insinuating that I would dislike it if my child were to date someone of another race, simply because of my skin colour.
Well, tell me, if you are White, would you, when your child becomes of age, let him or her date an Black-African or an African-American person? Would you approve of it 100%? Would your parents 100% approve of you dating Blacks?
(wow, that one smells like a whole new thread in some way.)
Originally posted by FistOfThe NorthYes, 100% on both accounts.
Well, tell me, if you are White, would you, when your child becomes of age, let him or her date an Black-African or an African-American person? Would you approve of it 100%? Would your parents 100% approve of you dating Blacks?(wow, that one smells like a whole new thread in some way.)
Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Well, tell me, if you are White, would you, when your child becomes of age, let him or her date an Black-African or an African-American person? Would you approve of it 100%? Would your parents 100% approve of you dating Blacks?(wow, that one smells like a whole new thread in some way.)
ummmm, of course I would and of course they would...
really, your generalization is inaccurate.
Now that you have assumed that my parents must be racist, as well as myself, tell me when it is ok that I get upset 🙂
"FOTN - insulting your family to try and prove an outdated point"
It's almost always common for parents of Black kids to tell them to not date whites or date outside your race.
I had a black girlfriend, Kelly, and her mom didn't like me cause I wasn't black. My girl told me so but said she didn't care what her mom thought. I've seen the same happen to a couple of friends.
So it's pretty common.
Originally posted by KidRock
It's almost always common for parents of Black kids to tell them to not date whites or date outside your race.I had a black girlfriend, Kelly, and her mom didn't like me cause I wasn't black. My girl told me so but said she didn't care what her mom thought. I've seen the same happen to a couple of friends.
So it's pretty common.
How dumb, again. You rarely hear of Black parents telling their kids or raising them up to hate Whites or not to date a White person. If you ask me, it's more likely that a White person, whilst dating a Black person, is more welcomed into that Black household while being offered food, smiles, and just good hospitality overall. All while i've been met with tight lipped smiles and crossed hands, no "hi's" and "bye" even after i've kindly said it to them, whenever i'd visit the homes of any white girlfriends i've had. Friends of mine have had similar accounts too.
Originally posted by FistOfThe North
How dumb, again. You rarely hear of Black parents telling their kids or raising them up to hate Whites or not to date a White person.
Not true. I hear plenty of black people talking about how their parents have raised them to hate whites and not associate with them. so looks like you're wrong.
Originally posted by FistOfThe North
If you ask me, it's more likely that a White person, whilst dating a Black person, is more welcomed into that Black household while being offered food, smiles, and just good hospitality overall. All while i've been met with tight lipped smiles and crossed hands, no "hi's" and "bye" even after i've kindly said it to them, whenever i'd visit the homes of any white girlfriends i've had. Friends of mine have had similar accounts too.
Well whenever I have gone to my black friends houses they always gave me a bad vibe like they didn't want me there and made no effort to welcome me.
While at my white friends houses I was offered food, smiles and just good hospitality overall.