Originally posted by The Grey Fox
Read my post and maybe you'll see I'm not saying 'disabilty' anymore, since I was wrong afterall. Being 'slow' is a difficulty, so no I'm not tying any words to them, I'm using the phrase used in the UK that means the same thing, so the word usage changes.
You idiot. In Britain its used offensively, as in an insult.
So don't try to play your defensiveness over the term off on someone else:
http://www.askoxford.com/concise_oed/orexxtard?view=uk
retard
• verb /ritaard/ hold back the development or progress of.
• noun /reetaard/ derogatory a mentally handicapped person.
— DERIVATIVES retardation noun retarder noun.
— ORIGIN Latin retardare, from tardus ‘slow’.
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/define.asp?key=67486&dict=CALD
retard Show phonetics
verb [T] FORMAL
to make something slower:
A rise in interest rates would severely retard economic growth.
retardant Show phonetics
noun [C or U], adjective
(a substance) that makes the progress or growth of something slower:
Pot plants are commonly treated with (a) growth retardant so that they retain their shape.
fire/flame retardant furniture (= furniture that does not burn easily)
retard Show phonetics
noun [C] OFFENSIVE
a stupid or mentally slow person:
I'm not playing with him, he's a total retard.
retarded Show phonetics
adjective OFFENSIVE OLD-FASHIONED
having had a slower mental development than other people of the same age:
mentally/emotionally retarded
the retarded plural noun OFFENSIVE OLD-FASHIONED
people with slow development, usually mental development:
The programme offers intermediate care for the mentally retarded.
retardation Show phonetics
noun [U] FORMAL
slow development, or development which is slower than it should be:
Severe iron deficiency can cause developmental delay and growth retardation.