Originally posted by Bardiel13
As much as I'd like to say everyone should express themselves openly and all that liberal stuff, I simply can't. Because, realistically speaking, we live in a society where people need to do certain things to get ahead in life. For instance, if you work in an office building, it is protocol that you wear a suit. If you are a man and you come to work one day in a speedo and kabuki make-up, chances are you will get fired. It doesn't matter if you feel most comfortable in a speedo and make-up, it makes more people around you uncomfortable.
I don't care what people do with their private lives. If they like to dress in the opposite sex's clothing, like it in the butt, or have a fetish for poop. Though it may strike me as odd, I'm not going to lynch them for being different.
With gay parades, they enforce the stereotype that gays are freaks who like to dance half naked and try to be as shocking as possible. Right in the street, even! These event are highly sexualized and suggestive. But, in society's eyes, that's alright, because they're gay and gays are naturally sexual devients and freaks, so let them express themsevles. If this were a parade with straight people with women running around topless and men thrusting their groins at the pedestrians, this would not fly.
You say, most homophobes hate gays because they simply like the same sex. That is not true at all. How do I know this? Becuase, me being a non-judging person have homophobic friends. Inevitably, we have little friendly debates about this topic. All of my friends told me what they didn't like most about homosexuals is that they were attention whores that liked to freak people out. They had no sense of romance, instead they go off to their gay orgies (which in fact is one of the reason why HIV is rampant in the gay community) and have meanling hedonistic sex. Of course, I told them this wasn't all true, that many gays have long-term and loving relationships with single individuals. One replied, "I believe you. Unfortuantely those aren't the gays I'm seeing."
Homosexuality, by definition, is the sexual attraction to the same gender. With gay parades, it's less about being homosexual and more about dancing in the street with a painted-on speedo, lip-synching to It's Raining Men. And anyone who is offended by such a sight, is obviously homophobic. Along with those of African descent, gays do a hefty job of reenforcing the stereotype that all homosexuals are screaming queens that like to dance on floats in parades, making suggestive thrusts at the crowd.
You have hit on a lot of reasons why I would personally never identify as "gay" or "bi" or whatever or participate in such parades
but you need to learn how to make a much better argument. You have some substance, but learn how to present it in a way that doesn't make you look ignorant.