http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TqTHmzMk0Cw
Now that's random 🙂
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TqTHmzMk0Cw
Now that's random 🙂
Alright, here's a little bit of SelphieT philosophy.
So, I'll open up, and just be honest, and say, I was feeling really lonely. I'm tellin' you, REALLY lonely. I was really depressed, that I didn't have someone to be with. I've always been the person that didn't have a boyfriend, while everyone else did, so I was always just kind of hanging around, thinking, "....alright......". And I guess to this day I still am.
The past week, I've just been depressed as shit, wanting someone to be there for me, wanting someone to just hold, wanting someone.
Well, it wasn't until I read someone's opinion on love a couple nights ago, that I realized it's not so bad. I mean, it wasn't terrible to begin with, but what this person had to say made the depression sort of.....fade away.
This person had said that you have to find happiness within yourself. You can't rely on your "certain someone" to make you happy, because if you do that, you're putting so much responsibility on that person, and if you stop that relationship, you'll be so lost. You'll instantly want to find a new person to make you happy, when you should be able to be happy by yourself.
And sooo many people get into commitments way too early in their life. They don't know what they need in a relationship yet, and they don't know what would work out for them best. They don't know of the other possibilities. You should be able to mature before you get into a serious commitment. That way, you should be able to present your happiness to a person, and if they are possibly the one, then they should be able to accept your happiness and support it, and you can do the same for their happiness.
.....so.......that's all I have to say. 😊
It just makes me really happy, because yeah, I'm still young, but I've got plenty of time to find myself, rather than finding others out.
So, hopefully that'll help some people out. It sure helped me out, from the single perspective. But of course it's fine for you to date too. Then you know what you really need, and what happens in certain relationships.
Woo! 😊