Originally posted by El Thorin
I need some counseling.I love my current girlfriend, but I'm starting to have feelings for another girl.
What a dilemma.
Well, are they serious feelings?
If it's just wanting, or thinking, I'd think it's somewhat normal. But if you feel you NEED to have her, that's kind of a problem.
Everyone thinks, everyone dreams, but going out and doing it is another thing, you know?
Originally posted by SelphieTWell we've been friends for about 6 months, and it's not til now, that I have been thinking about her more and more.
Well, are they serious feelings?If it's just wanting, or thinking, I'd think it's somewhat normal. But if you feel you NEED to have her, that's kind of a problem.
Everyone thinks, everyone dreams, but going out and doing it is another thing, you know?
But I really love my girlfriend, she's helped me out a lot. And I'm not ready to give her up, but I feel like I'm missing out on something with this other girl.
Originally posted by El Thorin
Well we've been friends for about 6 months, and it's not til now, that I have been thinking about her more and more.But I really love my girlfriend, she's helped me out a lot. And I'm not ready to give her up, but I feel like I'm missing out on something with this other girl.
Well, I'd recommend being with your girlfriend a little longer, and see how things go. If you still feel like you want to be with this other girl, then you obviously feel like you are missing something. I don't know what else to tell you, but if you develop feelings for another girl, you probably don't have complete love for your girlfriend, and you should end the relationship, because she should deserve someone who wouldn't feel like they were missing out at all.
Originally posted by Sol Valentine
This may sound weird, but invite both of them to some type of 'talk'
That sounds like ultimate disaster right there.
Originally posted by P23
my question is the people i hang out with know me through my cousin and brother. the problam i have is what should i do to have them like me for me and not just a brother or cousin there friends with?
Have you ever hung out with them without your brother or cousin around? Just you and them alone?
Originally posted by SelphieT
Have you ever hung out with them without your brother or cousin around? Just you and them alone?
yea. and also i just got out of a bad situation with some arabian chick and after that thats when i noticed im constitly pissed off and never really go out. the ***** used me wile she was dating some other sand bandit. the thing that pissed me off the most is she looked me in my eyes and says shes honest and shit.
Originally posted by P23
yea. and also i just got out of a bad situation with some arabian chick and after that thats when i noticed im constitly pissed off and never really go out. the ***** used me wile she was dating some other sand bandit. the thing that pissed me off the most is she looked me in my eyes and says shes honest and shit.
Well, you can't exactly do anything, when it's the other person being completely unfaithful. I can't help you out with that much, other than just to say there are so many others out there, that aren't the cheating type. 👆
Originally posted by SelphieT
Well, you can't exactly do anything, when it's the other person being completely unfaithful. I can't help you out with that much, other than just to say there are so many others out there, that aren't the cheating type. 👆
the only thing im really struggling with is im not a good person to hold a convo with and also i dont know what a female is into. one says the inside and 90% of the rest say looks so its like im stuck in a rut.
Originally posted by P23
the only thing im really struggling with is im not a good person to hold a convo with and also i dont know what a female is into. one says the inside and 90% of the rest say looks so its like im stuck in a rut.
Well, I'd say it's a mix of the both. They may say it's all personality, but it's more like 50/50.