Originally posted by AbnormalButSaneFvck that punk b!tch. Leave him. That's my opinion.
Sooooooo Miss Selphie,I have this friend. I shall call him BF. Well, he hankered me into this relationship on the pretext that I wouldn't have to do much. So I agreed thinking that I'd at least have someone to talk to. He told me I could share and all that jazz if I ever needed. Lately, all he cares about is sex. And if I wanted a sexual relationship I'd have one with someone a little closer to home (he lives a couple states away) and less exclusive. mmm
So do you think he used me? I miss it when he actually talked to me.
I should probably tell him, eh? Just afraid he'll get mad at me. Suggestions. Advice. Much appreciated. Meh.
Originally posted by EvilAngel
I got mother problem too.My mother & Father are separated.
Normally on Xmas i go to my uncles on the evening, and all my moms side gathers and we just have fun like.
This year my dad says he won't be in in the morning and afternoon so i can only come over during the evening, i said okay I'll talk to mom. Not with 6 or so says left both are like pressuring me to go with them.
My father says he planned it ages ago so mom is just making it difficult.
My mother says father knows what i do every evening and he's being spiteful.
To be honest i feel like ditching both of them, but i don't have anywhere else to go. So, whats your advice? 🙁
please don't ask what i want to do. Be with my mother or father.... that's an impossible question
I understand how you feel, my parents are both separated too. So there's no way you can spend time with both, like visiting one for half of the day, and the other for the other half?
Maybe you could see if some of your friends aren't doing anything really for Christmas, and maybe you could hang with them for the day.
I can't make your decision, I don't know what's best for you. Who do you live with? Who do you usually not see? Who would benefit the most from having you there?
Originally posted by AbnormalButSane
Sooooooo Miss Selphie,I have this friend. I shall call him BF. Well, he hankered me into this relationship on the pretext that I wouldn't have to do much. So I agreed thinking that I'd at least have someone to talk to. He told me I could share and all that jazz if I ever needed. Lately, all he cares about is sex. And if I wanted a sexual relationship I'd have one with someone a little closer to home (he lives a couple states away) and less exclusive. mmm
So do you think he used me? I miss it when he actually talked to me.
I should probably tell him, eh? Just afraid he'll get mad at me. Suggestions. Advice. Much appreciated. Meh.
I don't really think he used you, but it's obvious he changed his intentions. I think you should tell him the truth about how you feel, and ya know, tell him it bugs you, that you guys don't talk like you used to. If he just gets mad at you, then he isn't worth it to begin with. I hope things work out for ya babe 😉