Well, it's weird if you consider someone your close friend and then the other person changes their view of you. It can be uncomfortable too. Especially if you didn't know, but someone told you so. Then what do you do? I encountered this. He wasn't my bestest girl friend, but a really good guy friend. We did just everything together. We were really close and I talked very plainly and openly with him, then his sister told me....He loves you, that is why he is picking up the check. .....I thought, Ohhhhhh, I thought he was just being nice........ 😑
Then I had to talk to him............Then he hated meeeeeeee..... 🙁
Re: What happens if you fall inlove with your bestfriend?
Originally posted by anrev
you have a bestfriend(opposite sex), you've known each other for a year. That persons comforts you even not personally or physically is not there but he finds time communicating with you everyday. You both share secrets and exchange advices. You always have brainy arguments and have huge fights for a couple of times. But at the end of the day you have fix the problem and are best buddies again. many person knew you says your bestfriend is inlove with you but you tend to ignore it.What will you do if its true?
what will you do if you yourself is questioning now do you have feeling for him or no?
Yea... it did happen.
I questioned myself if I had feelings for him.. so one day, when we were talking online, I simply blurted out 'I love you'.
My comp crashed right after I said that (talk about great timing) so I didn't talk to him till the next day. He said hi as usual... and we began talking, and so I said, "What would you do if I told you I meant that I love you?" He became silent for a while before he answered, and said, "I'm not sure. I'd accept your love.. but I'm going to have to think about it all.." and I said "Ok" and shrugged it off, cause I wasn't sure if I did love him. And as the days passed by... we actually got closer and closer.
Every online convo we had, every text message started ending with either 'xoxo' or 'Much love'. And one day, he said it to me over the phone. 🙂
Been a good 6 months 🙂