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Right, well, need your views.
I'm so goddamn confused I wouldn't;t even mind the advice of your average KMCer.... Well.. I've liked this girl (Lou) for quite a while and she knows it because we've talked about it... Tonight she was really quite upset, I comforted her, as a friend, with no intentions in mind... In the regular friendship way... It so happened that we kissed later the same evening, when she was in a slightly more jolly mood... and it wasn't in your regular way, we kissed as more than friends, it was brief yet I know we both felt it.... After though we both instantly started talking to people of the other sex, in more than a friendly way... I don't understand it, the second I act more than a friend to the girl I like I go and do more with someone that wasn't even involved and I feel nothing for. I just don't understand it at all... Maybe it's because I don;'t wan't to jeopradise a thing we already have, that I cherish so dearily.. Our friendship. ( In know corney right?)
What do you guys think? Where do I stand?... Not trying to sound emo or attention seeking so you can cut that crap right now.
SL
Re: Right, well, need your views.
Originally posted by §P0oONY
Maybe it's because I don;'t wan't to jeopradise a thing we already have, that I cherish so dearily.. Our friendship.
Seems like you answered your own question right there.
Maybe explaining this to her will help you both understand and decide whats best for you both.
Sounds like you have something special with her. ..and remember some of the best relationships are because it started as friends first.
RJ
Re: Right, well, need your views.
Originally posted by §P0oONY
I'm so goddamn confused I wouldn't;t even mind the advice of your average KMCer.... Well.. I've liked this girl (Lou) for quite a while and she knows it because we've talked about it... Tonight she was really quite upset, I comforted her, as a friend, with no intentions in mind... In the regular friendship way... It so happened that we kissed later the same evening, when she was in a slightly more jolly mood... and it wasn't in your regular way, we kissed as more than friends, it was brief yet I know we both felt it.... After though we both instantly started talking to people of the other sex, in more than a friendly way... I don't understand it, the second I act more than a friend to the girl I like I go and do more with someone that wasn't even involved and I feel nothing for. I just don't understand it at all... Maybe it's because I don;'t wan't to jeopradise a thing we already have, that I cherish so dearily.. Our friendship. ( In know corney right?)What do you guys think? Where do I stand?... Not trying to sound emo or attention seeking so you can cut that crap right now.
do NOT mess up the friendship, I did that once with my friend Kristine, and the damage was beyond repair.