Right, well, need your views.

Started by §P0oONY3 pages

Right, well, need your views.

I'm so goddamn confused I wouldn't;t even mind the advice of your average KMCer.... Well.. I've liked this girl (Lou) for quite a while and she knows it because we've talked about it... Tonight she was really quite upset, I comforted her, as a friend, with no intentions in mind... In the regular friendship way... It so happened that we kissed later the same evening, when she was in a slightly more jolly mood... and it wasn't in your regular way, we kissed as more than friends, it was brief yet I know we both felt it.... After though we both instantly started talking to people of the other sex, in more than a friendly way... I don't understand it, the second I act more than a friend to the girl I like I go and do more with someone that wasn't even involved and I feel nothing for. I just don't understand it at all... Maybe it's because I don;'t wan't to jeopradise a thing we already have, that I cherish so dearily.. Our friendship. ( In know corney right?)

What do you guys think? Where do I stand?... Not trying to sound emo or attention seeking so you can cut that crap right now.

if you think you can make it work I say go for it dude. Talk to her about it and see what her feelings are. If her concerns are similar then talk it out.

Re: Right, well, need your views.

Originally posted by §P0oONY
Maybe it's because I don;'t wan't to jeopradise a thing we already have, that I cherish so dearily.. Our friendship.
Seems like you answered your own question right there.
Maybe explaining this to her will help you both understand and decide whats best for you both.
Sounds like you have something special with her. ..and remember some of the best relationships are because it started as friends first.

Life is too short.

Just bang her Spooony and move on.

Just wear a comdom, whatever you do. You have no idea where this girl has been or what she has banged.

Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
Just wear a comdom, whatever you do. You have no idea where this girl has been or what she has banged.

Exactly.

Wear and tear.

Re: Right, well, need your views.

Originally posted by §P0oONY
I'm so goddamn confused I wouldn't;t even mind the advice of your average KMCer.... Well.. I've liked this girl (Lou) for quite a while and she knows it because we've talked about it... Tonight she was really quite upset, I comforted her, as a friend, with no intentions in mind... In the regular friendship way... It so happened that we kissed later the same evening, when she was in a slightly more jolly mood... and it wasn't in your regular way, we kissed as more than friends, it was brief yet I know we both felt it.... After though we both instantly started talking to people of the other sex, in more than a friendly way... I don't understand it, the second I act more than a friend to the girl I like I go and do more with someone that wasn't even involved and I feel nothing for. I just don't understand it at all... Maybe it's because I don;'t wan't to jeopradise a thing we already have, that I cherish so dearily.. Our friendship. ( In know corney right?)

What do you guys think? Where do I stand?... Not trying to sound emo or attention seeking so you can cut that crap right now.

do NOT mess up the friendship, I did that once with my friend Kristine, and the damage was beyond repair.

I don't even remember making this thread.... Jesus I was drunk last night. I think I'm just going to let things play out for a while, see what happens.

well, remember what I said, you dont wanna lose her as a friend.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
well, remember what I said, you dont wanna lose her as a friend.
No, but at the same time I still do want more.

Originally posted by §P0oONY
No, but at the same time I still do want more.
I know, thats where we were, we couldnt help ourselves. 🙁

I decided to give it a go with my best friend. Now we are engaged to be married.

Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
I decided to give it a go with my best friend. Now we are engaged to be married.
sometimes it works out, good for you. 😉

The big thing is that I know about pretty much all of her previous relationships and she is a bit of a loose cannon when it comes to them. Jeopradising our friendship would be quite a big risk.

There's nothing better than your lover being your best friend.

My wife IS my best friend.

Though there is merit to what RJ says and he IS older and wiser than I am...I say **** caution and try to experience life's loves to the fullest. There is nothing better than being in love.

It can hurt if you break up later...who cares, there are too many people to worry about losing one friendship over...you can always make another friend but you can only have one true love.

Originally posted by §P0oONY
The big thing is that I know about pretty much all of her previous relationships and she is a bit of a loose cannon when it comes to them. Jeopradising our friendship would be quite a big risk.
It will indeed be a risk, but you have to look at it both ways, maybe you will get out of it what SL did.

women uhuh

Originally posted by Mairuzu
women uhuh
they have boobies and we NEED them. ✅

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
they have boobies and we NEED them. ✅

Originally posted by Mairuzu
and they KNOW IT. 😠