Right, well, need your views.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Right.

I told my wife yesterday that I had planned on marrying her best friend after I got off my Mormon mission. I told my wife because I felt that it was her right to know when we started talking about stuff like that and that I USED to have serious feelings for her best friend.

NOTE: I did not know my wife until WELL after I decided not to get with this first lady.

Originally posted by Strangelove
Hey man, if you really like her in that way, go for it. But like RJ said, don't endanger your friendship in case she doesn't ultimately feel the same way. Your typing is quite stable when drunk, I'd just like to note.

Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
Thats tight.
I admire that because to many people I know would have not talked about it.
Even if it was something before meeting your wife.. it was part of you and she deserves to know stuff like that. Its showing her respect.

Go for it, don't hold back. If your friendship is as strong as it seems then it will weather any storm and I truly believe that.

Life is too short. As much as I usually hate that phrase, it seems appropriate here hug

I say go for it, Like other ppl said, most of the best relationships start out as good friends.

Just an update if anyone cared, I decided to leave it, until about 3 nights ago when she told me that she liked me as more than a friend. So we're basically going out now. It's great although in about a month we;ve got a 3 month summer holiday which is a tad annoying as we're going to be in different parts of the country.

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Originally posted by §P0oONY
I'm so goddamn confused I wouldn't;t even mind the advice of your average KMCer.... Well.. I've liked this girl (Lou) for quite a while and she knows it because we've talked about it... Tonight she was really quite upset, I comforted her, as a friend, with no intentions in mind... In the regular friendship way... It so happened that we kissed later the same evening, when she was in a slightly more jolly mood... and it wasn't in your regular way, we kissed as more than friends, it was brief yet I know we both felt it.... After though we both instantly started talking to people of the other sex, in more than a friendly way... I don't understand it, the second I act more than a friend to the girl I like I go and do more with someone that wasn't even involved and I feel nothing for. I just don't understand it at all... Maybe it's because I don;'t wan't to jeopradise a thing we already have, that I cherish so dearily.. Our friendship. ( In know corney right?)

What do you guys think? Where do I stand?... Not trying to sound emo or attention seeking so you can cut that crap right now.

Odd situation. Well, you both seem to like each other in a "love" kinda way. Did you try talking to her about it? Do you even want to have a relationship with her?

[edit] Nevermind, seems to have cleared up. Should have read more than the initial post.