Originally posted by SchecterHe totally does that a lot. I wonder if he plans it, but it is quite skilled regardless. I wish I could rely on past me so much, I say some pretty wack shit I regret usually 5 minutes later.
yeah ac, you actually didnt say that parents who spank their kids are bad, but you sure implied the **** out of it.
Originally posted by Impediment
So answer me this question:You said that "a bad parent will have to lay a hand on their child, whereas a good parent will not have to."
Why? Where is the logic that a good parent, no matter what their parenting tactics are, will never have to swat their child?
I didn't say that, did I? Quote me EXACTLY.
I said bad parents DO, not that they all will have to, or that all good parents will not. I simply highlighted two variables that are both true.
Bad parents do resort to spankings. Fact. I didn't say ALL bad parents WILL. I simply said bad parents do.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha CentauriArguable. Though you didn't say that only bad parents spank their kids, the idea that good parents will surely never have to rely on it, is still wrong, imo.
I didn't say that, did I? Quote me EXACTLY.I said bad parents DO, not that they all will have to, or that all good parents will not. I simply highlighted two variables that are both true.
Bad parents do resort to spankings. Fact. I didn't say ALL bad parents WILL. I simply said bad parents do.
-AC
Not all good parents.
I didn't say ALL good parents will NEVER have to spank a kid. I simply said good parents don't have to, because they don't.
See? All in the planning. Let people make mistakes, then correct them.
Originally posted by Kelly_Bean
A.C's back for one day and starting sh*t already....sad...😬
I'm not actually starting shit, I'm having a debate with people. If you can't contribute, leave. Perhaps go tell us what you're listening to.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Not all good parents.I didn't say ALL good parents will NEVER have to spank a kid. I simply said good parents don't have to, because they don't.
See? All in the planning. Let people make mistakes, then correct them.
-AC
Nope, sir. That's not what I said in this case. I said that you said good people never have to rely on it. I disagree. I believe there are children that NEED spanking to turn out as reasonable people. And a good parent will have to use it, to actually be a good parent. Knowutimsayin' dawg?
Originally posted by Impediment
Generally, when Madison is acting up my first action is a warning. "Stop doing that."If that doesn't work, then I use the warning again, this time with an ultimatum. "Stop that or I'm going to spank you!"
And if that still doesn't work, it's time for a spanking on the bottom with an open palm. Not a "beating". Usually, I spank her with her clothes on, and not bare-bottomed.
I 100% agree with you.
As a fellow parent I have done the same to my children.
My children are very well behaved and have no problems socially or academically. Disciplining my children when they were young was a very smart decision.
Originally posted by Alpha CentauriHa, now you are changing the quote though. That is, now really, not what you said initially. But fair enough, with this adjustment you are probably right.
Yes, but that doesn't disprove what I said.I said good people don't ever have to rely on it inherently. Not ALL good people can get away with NOT spanking. Some need to, others don't. Good people can get away with it.
Eg: My parents.
-AC
Originally posted by Bardock42
Ha, now you are changing the quote though. That is, now really, not what you said initially. But fair enough, with this adjustment you are probably right.
I didn't adjust it, I elaborated the meaning. You filled in blanks that you assume were there.
*A German joke*
Originally posted by Impediment
What would you do, A.C., were it your child in McDonald's who acted that way? Would you warrant his actions for a swatting? Or would you have used a "time out"? Would you blame the child's actions solely on the parents?
Depends on the age, regarding the blame thing.
As for what I'd do, I'd take him or her home and restrict them of anything that made them happy.
Toys, cartoons, video games, air.
Originally posted by Schecter
again AC, you said an absolute statement.
you said that bad parents DO spank/hit their children.dont ignore me you slippery little whore
Yes, because they do. I didn't make a statement and then change the meaning, I made a statement and just elaborated on it later.
Every bad parent I've ever known has spanked or beaten their kids, so bad parents do that. Just not all of them, you gut-enjoyer.
-AC