Why DO People Fall Out of Love?

Started by Mandos4 pages
Originally posted by Ladyluck
Perhaps people don't "fall out" of love, but weren't truly in love to begin with or meant to be together, so it just didn't last.

Depends, there's two types of falling. They're the trippin' and there's the World trade center fall. Which are you talking about?

Originally posted by Ladyluck
Perhaps people don't "fall out" of love, but weren't truly in love to begin with or meant to be together, so it just didn't last.

That's what I think sometimes. Perhaps most people are just infatuated and not truly in love.

Originally posted by AbnormalButSane
That's what I think sometimes. Perhaps most people are just infatuated and not truly in love.

✅ Other emotions can be easily confused for love.

What is love?

Originally posted by Mandos
What is love?

Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me no more.

Originally posted by Ladyluck
Perhaps people don't "fall out" of love, but weren't truly in love to begin with or meant to be together, so it just didn't last.

That's a pretty good sum up of it.

People get into a comfort zone and don't really make an effort with one another, leading to boredom for either one or the other. That's one of my views, obviously there are lots of reasons.

People change all the time. So maybe you were in love with them but not anymore.

Sorry i was unclear i mean t people can have little changes all the time and maybe the spark just fade from them changen to someone u just dont like over a long period of time.

Originally posted by vinz07
This is just a little assessment on Why Do people Fall out of Love....What might be the true reason for this?

Guys, I want your brilliant mind to answer this confusing yet simple question.
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Every man and woman are different towards this. It happens due to the fact of a secular party. The person was never in love in the first place, just wanted sekks and nothing more. A lot of reasons can be given, but may never be known.

Originally posted by Toku King
Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me no more.
😆 well played

Originally posted by vinz07
This is just a little assessment on Why Do people Fall out of Love....What might be the true reason for this?

Guys, I want your brilliant mind to answer this confusing yet simple question.
Looking forward🙂

You emphasized the wrong word in the title. ermm

Originally posted by Ladyluck
Perhaps people don't "fall out" of love, but weren't truly in love to begin with or meant to be together, so it just didn't last.

Ditto, that's my answer.

Originally posted by ScarletSpeed
my ex and I though twe were inlove,

I just got bored, though.

so boredom, and the novelty sort of wears off.


So you really were never "in love" to begin with.

Like Ladyluck said, it probably wasn't love in the first place; could have been lust, desire, desperation, infatuation, and maybe some horny-ness 😂
Or, it could also be because it wasn't meant to be, and they aren't right for each other.
You will find out more about that special someone when you start living with them, or spend too much time with them. You'll discover traits you don't like, and also you can get annoyed with their behaviour, which is why many people would say, "Don't spend too much time with them, get clingy or want to know everything about him/her."

No one is perfect, yes. But sometimes we can't accept certain flaws.

If it's true love, there is nothing that can come between you,

Originally posted by kodak
😆 well played

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Originally posted by Röland
So you really were never "in love" to begin with.
Indeed.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
If it's true love, there is nothing that can come between you,

Rubbish.

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
Rubbish.
Thats it? Rubbish? No elaboration?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Thats it? Rubbish? No elaboration?

Love is not an all encompassing word - it means different things to different people. You can't use your experiences of it to generalise about every single relationship where the word 'love' is used.

Maybe they weren't in love in the first place? Please, do reveal to me what sort of graph or whatever you're using to measure the phenomenon.