the points made are all validated. Every one feels things differently and "Love" is a matter of opinion and general out look. I also think that it depends on life experiences and upbringing.
I do agree that the term is used to freely these days which in turn has made superficial in many regards.
I feel that alot of people spend their whole life looking for it, but what they dont realise, is that they already have it, they just cant see it: hence the fact that it is something that is solely felt by the individual. It can be seen if you know what you are looking for but the expressed emotion cannot be physically shared with another only expressed.
In responce to an earlier comment of boredom, yes relationships have those phases but making a relatioship is hard work. You cant just sit there and expect it to happen of its own accord. In alot of cases the resolvement of a relationship is simply because its too much hard work, one party or both parties do not wish to put the effort in.
In regards to knowing some one inside out, that would never happen the human soul is full of crevices and dark pits. There will always be things that you dont know. Yes spending too much time together can kill a relationship - it burns out too quickly and you grow to hate one another simply because all you can see is their bad traights.
My BF and I have been together for a little over three years, at one point I was virtually living with him and there was alot of tention. Yes we learned things about each other that we didnt like. But I accept that he isnt perfect and I dont wan thim to be, that would make life very boring! we made an agreement when we first got together, that we wouldnt smother each other. We both have our own friends and mutual friends, and we give each other the space we need.
Like I said before relationships arnt easy and Love/being in love can greatly complicate things if it isnt respected like any emotion.
Originally posted by LaraGeez, I must have been half awake when I made that booboo......You know I wasnt calling you that, right? ":you:" is a code I use for an MSN yes smily, I was talking to two people on MSN and posting at the same time..... 😮
excuse me 😕
Originally posted by Bardock42Typo, Dr. Phil. 🙄
RJ doesn't know when something is appropriate and when it isn't. Don't mind him.