he has people just bash that logic when it doesn't work in their favor. We have all used said logic at some point. Yes it is a flawed way. Also I've always taken the cartoons and certain extended marvel created media of Spider-man as canon towards his speed.
Certain people though register to character myth instead of the actual character. Spider-man is fast but some register to the myth based speed instead of how he actual moves and fights.
Please if your gonna bring in Spider-God then this isn't a debate this is you doing anything you can to make your favorite character win. The comics are not the only canon source for Hero abilities. The extended universes that are marvel licensed tend to portray the character as they are in comics. Live action movies excluded. Yet when certain people from the comics see that the cartoons don't adhere to the myth they right it off. Even when it's backed by the comic book company.
Please people get this idea out of your head that Spider-man moves and fights at these mind boggling speeds you have in your heads. We have rock lee in manga and anime moving faster than people can keep up with and juggling them in the air. He also has created craters without opening gates, but after removing weights. Heck by the anime and manga(can show proof if your thick headed) Rock Lee breaks the sound barrier when he fights. If your gonna tell me Spidey does that then I give up. Also for the love of god spider-mans precog anticipates bullets it doesn't dodge them after fire.