My Girlfriend did a very stupid mistake.

Now, we're both of age, and mature, but she comes from a Conservatiuve Vietnamese familly, and has cracked underneath her mother's pressure.
She told her that we where having sex. From what I gather her mother is *very* disappointed in her, and I am not allowed under their roof anymore.

When I started dating my Girlfriend in July, I knew I'd have to amke efforts to accomodate, and have done everything in my power to make the relationship work, even perants meeting each other.

but now? I am pretty powerless, it's up to her, and She is not the type of person to be able to stand up for herself or others (See, conservative familly, yet she is down to earth, surprisingly)

There is, however, one hope:

My Girlfriend's adoptive grandmother (father's side)

She is very open minded and was even pushing for us to get together. Hopefully she can get throug to my girlfriend's perants.

Your girlfriend killed a man, wut?

Originally posted by Koala MeatPie
Now, we're both of age, and mature, but she comes from a Conservatiuve Vietnamese familly, and has cracked underneath her mother's pressure.
She told her that we where having sex. From what I gather her mother is *very* disappointed in her, and I am not allowed under their roof anymore.

When I started dating my Girlfriend in July, I knew I'd have to amke efforts to accomodate, and have done everything in my power to make the relationship work, even perants meeting each other.

but now? I am pretty powerless, it's up to her, and She is not the type of person to be able to stand up for herself or others (See, conservative familly, yet she is down to earth, surprisingly)

There is, however, one hope:

My Girlfriend's adoptive grandmother (father's side)

She is very open minded and was even pushing for us to get together. Hopefully she can get throug to my girlfriend's perants.

Wait wait wait wait, your mom told your girlfriend that she's having sex with you???

Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
Wait wait wait wait, your mom told your girlfriend that she's having sex with you???

Originally posted by Bardock42
No, dummy, she told her to have sex with him and he's very conservative, so he won't go under their roof any more for fear of being raped.

Oh, "under their roof", meaning he won't go down on her. Okay, now I get it.

Classic OTF crylaugh

Originally posted by Koala MeatPie
Now, we're both of age, and mature, but she comes from a Conservatiuve Vietnamese familly, and has cracked underneath her mother's pressure.
She told her that we where having sex. From what I gather her mother is *very* disappointed in her, and I am not allowed under their roof anymore.

When I started dating my Girlfriend in July, I knew I'd have to amke efforts to accomodate, and have done everything in my power to make the relationship work, even perants meeting each other.

but now? I am pretty powerless, it's up to her, and She is not the type of person to be able to stand up for herself or others (See, conservative familly, yet she is down to earth, surprisingly)

There is, however, one hope:

My Girlfriend's adoptive grandmother (father's side)

She is very open minded and was even pushing for us to get together. Hopefully she can get throug to my girlfriend's perants.

That's understandable. I told my mom when I first started having sex. It's a big moment in a girls life and it can be somewhat scary to some...presuming that she was a virgin 😬

Originally posted by WhiskeyGirl
That's understandable. I told my mom when I first started having sex. It's a big moment in a girls life and it can be somewhat scary to some...presuming that she was a virgin 😬

That's hot.

Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
That's hot.

That's even hotter. naughty

Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
Oh, "under their roof", meaning he won't go down on her. Okay, now I get it.

Originally posted by Bardock42
YOU ARE OF NO HELP AT ALL TO HIS OPEN MINDED GRANDMOTHER!!!

I think that, uh . . . . I forgot what, oh, this . . . . . .

The internet is stupid.

Originally posted by Koala MeatPie
The internet is stupid.

Originally posted by Koala MeatPie
The internet is stupid.

[edit] Animate objects are also called "women".

Originally posted by Bardock42
Well, with roughly no intelligence to it, I would agree, though, it is a general consensus not to label inanimate objects as stupid.

[edit] Animate objects are also called "women".

Actually, the hard drive spins, doesn't it? hmm

Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
Actually, the hard drive spins, doesn't it? hmm

Not the kinde of animation I was talking about.

But I guess it is also kinda hard to say what "the internet" is ...

IT'S CERTAINLY NOT STUPID THOUGH!!!

Originally posted by Bardock42
Not the kinde of animation I was talking about.

But I guess it is also kinda hard to say what "the internet" is ...

IT'S CERTAINLY NOT STUPID THOUGH!!!

hmm

Originally posted by Koala MeatPie
Now, we're both of age, and mature, but she comes from a Conservatiuve Vietnamese familly, and has cracked underneath her mother's pressure.
She told her that we where having sex. From what I gather her mother is *very* disappointed in her, and I am not allowed under their roof anymore.

When I started dating my Girlfriend in July, I knew I'd have to amke efforts to accomodate, and have done everything in my power to make the relationship work, even perants meeting each other.

but now? I am pretty powerless, it's up to her, and She is not the type of person to be able to stand up for herself or others (See, conservative familly, yet she is down to earth, surprisingly)

There is, however, one hope:

My Girlfriend's adoptive grandmother (father's side)

She is very open minded and was even pushing for us to get together. Hopefully she can get throug to my girlfriend's perants.

First, I apologize that these guys here at KMC are being a**holes.

Second, yeah man, that can really suck.

Do you love her? If you love her, then no matter what, you'll figure something out. If you just like her and it is only an interest at the moment, meaning you're not sure if you want to marry at all, then don't fret.

I would say that if you both enjoy each other's company, **** her parents and do what you guys want. You should give her parents a lecture about being controlling. You should tell them that it is a different generation than the previous conservative ones. You could drive the point home better by pointing out how casual sex is in one of their favorite sitcoms. (If they watch a sitcom regularly, show their hypocrisy by finding an example of how casual sex is treated...this could piss them off but they should eventually realize that they turn a blind eye to the very things they profess as wrong.)

If you want her parents part of your lives, then make an effort. Tell them that you both have different ideas of morals and you want them to understand you and your girlfriend's wishes.

It really all depends on how important she is to you. Is she just another girlfriend or do you think this girl could be marriage material? Depending on your thoughts, you would either forget about the parents or try to re-establish those bonds with them.

Or you could do it like I do and have a "I don't realy give a **** about your inlaws. They can kiss my ass and if in the process, we like each other, we all win."

Here's my un-serious suggestion. You could also get their daughter preggers and then announce it to them in their living room. Right after your girlfriend says, "Mom......day.....I'm pregnant." You should immediately stand up and do a stupid dance while yelling like a crazed sports fan, "Ooooooh yeah! I'm hittin' that..." And then do slow but exaggerated pelvic thrusts while pretending to hold her ass and go "ooooo aahhhhh!". And then smack that pretend ass. And then laugh like a crazed man really loud right in their faces. Sounds like something Stifler would do.

Anyway, nice to have you back. You should visit us more often.

Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
That's hot.

Your robot is hot 😐