Originally posted by dadudemon
At 7, I liked performing and making people laugh...but you're right: parents push their children too hard, sometimes. But how do we know that the girls didn't like it? Surely they did? They are a bit too young to not have wanted to do it, right?I dunno...it's hard to say, but that type of discipline that they showed was obviously the work of tens to hundreds of hours, imo.
you can't make blanket statements about any children and what is appropriate, and I'm sure lots of kids have fun from that. I started playing hockey just after that, and was in other sports. and in a lot of ways I think they are the same
You just hit the nail on the head. While these might be enriching to kids, its not like there aren't other ways they can get that same empowerment that doesn't involve the same pressure and competition.
This is a little beyond the issue in the video. I think it is more of a problem with the way we value women vs parental pressure, but if we are talking about just like general childhood activities, ya, I think there must be ways to sort of reduce how bad this stuff can be for kids.
I'm always reminded of the guy who beat his son's hockey coach to death right after the game, in front of the kids, for some trivial reason (my dad coached for years and had some confrontations too)