Originally posted by Peach
No, I'm giving actual advice from a woman who has dealt with the overly clingy type that think there's something there when there isn't. It's not endearing; it's very off-putting and a turn off.
If it's unattractive then they'd all have to be pretty stupid. Wanna know why?
Originally posted by The Nuul
Wait, are you going to punch another mirror?
Not quite that dumb to do it a second time. I might go punch that strip bacon boyfriend a few times with my left though.
Might smack that whore around a bit too for rushing into a one-week relationship without giving the light-a-day.
Originally posted by Peach
You knew her for one day. There was no relationship. Sorry, there wasn't. You blame her for getting back with her ex so quickly - how do you know she wasn't planning on doing that for some time already? Just because she talked to you for one day and said you were cute doesn't mean she owes you anything.And I don't blame her for thinking you overreacted and saying you acted like a child. Guess what, you did. Anyone who expects any sort of relationship from the first time we've talked is someone I would want to stay far away from, too. That's simply overbearing, overneedy, and far too clingy. Expecting things too quickly is extremely off-putting.
You are, as you say, in high school (or so I'm assuming because you mention not being at college yet). You will live without being in a relationship, believe it or not. It's not the end of the world. And HS relationships are rarely more than a bit of fun and generally don't last.
Also, stop linking to things from facebook, and you're not to post pictures of other people without their permission.
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Dude, I missed that part......guy is tripping because they talked for one day?It'd be different if it were a coupla years, he went and spent a week with her, they planned a future together, then BAM, nothing.....
Not that I know what that's like.
This is about the boy! Come on now!
I say it like im your best friend and im your age. Lol.
up beat sure why not.. once when i was 22 i believe i was seeing a girl she was a half breed native american/white girl use to tease her about her not really being indian and her parents just telling her that..
i was also seeing another girl blond blue eyed girl whose parents had gotten her a small time record deal she wanted to be a country singer i use to tease her too..
anyways one day my girlfriend which she felt we were in an exclusive relationship which i wasnt i just slept with her while i was waiting to get with the blond one, which i had known a lot longer months even she was mormon so we would date but not do anything else.. 😬
so you see how i was in a pickle.. anyways one day during the winter season i got a job at the mall out of boredom and to be close to the blond girl.. well my other girl the brunette came to my work one day during lunch.. she saw us together she was upset my blond girl sense something was wrong they both eyed each other were polite awkwardness moment ..
blond girl had to go to work she wouldnt answer when i call her same with my other one.. so i get off work and i get home to my pad and my stuff was all gone.. stuff that i paid for.. T.v gaming system, stereo.. my bed at 1st i was confused i figured i paid for all that stuff did i? then it clicked i did she was just being vindictive...
anyways what made it worse was i use to tease the girl who took my stuff when she ask me what kinda girl i liked..
i use to tell her it was blond blue eyed dumb as dirt rich girls..
she was tanned.. brunette with green eyes and also moderately upperclass..
the girl she caught me with which was the one i really wanted was blond blue eye, rich and a lil naive... anyways i think i spend 3 months during the winter season depressed and cuddled with a pillow with an empty feeling with my loss...
Originally posted by Wild Shadow
up beat sure why not.. once when i was 22 i believe i was seeing a girl she was a half breed native american/white girl use to tease her about her not really being indian and her parents just telling her that..i was also seeing another girl blond blue eyed girl whose parents had gotten her a small time record deal she wanted to be a country singer i use to tease her too..
anyways one day my girlfriend which she felt we were in an exclusive relationship which i wasnt i just slept with her while i was waiting to get with the blond one, which i had known a lot longer months even she was mormon so we would date but not do anything else.. 😬
so you see how i was in a pickle.. anyways one day during the winter season i got a job at the mall out of boredom and to be close to the blond girl.. well my other girl the brunette came to my work one day during lunch.. she saw us together she was upset my blond girl sense something was wrong they both eyed each other were polite awkwardness moment ..
blond girl had to go to work she wouldnt answer when i call her same with my other one.. so i get off work and i get home to my pad and my stuff was all gone.. stuff that i paid for.. T.v gaming system, stereo.. my bed at 1st i was confused i figured i paid for all that stuff did i? then it clicked i did she was just being vindictive...
anyways what made it worse was i use to tease the girl who took my stuff when she ask me what kinda girl i liked..
i use to tell her it was blond blue eyed dumb as dirt rich girls..
she was tanned.. brunette with green eyes and also moderately upperclass..the girl she caught me with which was the one i really wanted was blond blue eye, rich and a lil naive... anyways i think i spend 3 months during the winter season depressed and cuddled with a pillow with an empty feeling with my loss...
Get busy living or get busy dying, but never look back for anything more than experience, dont keep trauma, kill it, its only bad for to because its bad to u alone, who knows? one day u might love another girl even more and she might love u just as much, and if u screw that up, dont take it as anymore than an experience, u can be happy just be deciding to be alone.
Get busy living or get busy dying.
Originally posted by Wild Shadow
i was being up beat for you.. anyways that post you just posted some extremely familiar heard it b4 more then once
In the Shawshank Redemption's script the character Andy Duffrene was faced with life or death, and to him, living life miserably was death.
I take the movies implication of optimism very seriously.