Originally posted by 753It's still sociopathic to say that one person's pain is insignificant because another has felt worse pain.
Not to the one who suffers, but to an outside observer they may pale in comparison.For instance:
Super man discovered a planet full of people he had no memories of had exploded and he was the last of his kind. Rough, specially for a teenager, adolescency is a hard enough period as it is after all
Arround the same age, Magneto dug himself out of a collective grave where the rest of his family stayed after being fired upon by the SS and then he was captured and sent to a concentration camp
You're girlfriend of a year broke up with you? Who cares someone else's wife of 15 years died in their arms.
It's like saying that ass person's feelings don't matter in the slightest. Oh your hand hurts because you accidenlty put a nail through it? Who cares, other people have had their hands blown off.
It's illogical as well, falls under the red herring argument.
Originally posted by Creshoskreason i added scott is because he has cried so many times over jean. sure he has a reason to but that doesnt change the topic of the thread.
It's not for every and any instance where a character cries, its for beyond the normal of what's expected.If a person's family is killed its expected for them to show some greif.
Not every character is a psycho or sociopath like the joker.
It's not "Oh, they cried, therefore they're a crybaby!", like you seem to think it is.
and honestly if your gonna give an excuse to every character that has cried before then this thread shouldnt exist cause like i said before they all cried at some point for a reason.
only ones that are cry babies are ones that dont get what they want or dont get their way. i could name afew but i know u would take offense to it.
Originally posted by chomperx9If its a valid reason that doesn't make him a crybaby.
[B]reason i added scott is because he has cried so many times over jean. sure he has a reason to but that doesnt change the topic of the thread.[]/b]
Why is that so hard for you to understand?
Its not about "Oh they cried" its crying more than is expected you sociopath.
Originally posted by King CastleThat's a very sociopathic thing to say. I hope you never feel the slightest bit depressed because its insiginifcant compared to what other people have felt previously.
no its called putting things in perspective and realizing your pain is inconsequential and can and has bn dealt by others in a better manner.
Have a headache? That's insignicant compared to the person who got shot in the face and survived.
Originally posted by Creshosk
It's still sociopathic to say that one person's pain is insignificant because another has felt worse pain.You're girlfriend of a year broke up with you? Who cares someone else's wife of 15 years died in their arms.
It's like saying that ass person's feelings don't matter in the slightest. Oh your hand hurts because you accidenlty put a nail through it? Who cares, other people have had their hands blown off.
It's illogical as well, falls under the red herring argument.
haha there is nothing sociopathic at all about it. It's natural for people to feel more empathy for a greater loss than for a smaller one. Depending on how small it is, the griefer might just seem spoiled and weak to an observer.
For instance if a friend had come tell me that he had just broken up with his girlfriend of a year and another friend had told me his wife had died in his arms, I would be far more moved by the dead wife then the common break up and it would indeed be a much bigger deal to any normal person.
In fact, if both events had occurred arround the same time and they were both crying about it to me, I would probably tell the dumped one to suck it up, cause his loss would seem so meaningless in comparison to the widower's.
Originally posted by King Castle
no its called putting things in perspective and realizing your pain is inconsequential and can and has bn dealt by others in a better manner.
i realize my pain is inconsequential in the grand scheme of life so i try not to let it effect me to the point i am a crying sniffling lil girl like guys like peter who seems to constantly cry when his wife breaks up with him or when he thinks of qwen years later etc etc..
he cries in mid battle about his wife that is a no no for a real soldier warrior.. your sole mission is to focus what is on hand and worry about your private life when you are back home
Originally posted by King CastleYou really are a sociopath.
i realize my pain is inconsequential in the grand scheme of life so i try not to let it effect me to the point i am a crying sniffling lil girl like guys like peter who seems to constantly cry when his wife breaks up with him or when he thinks of qwen years later etc etc..he cries in mid battle about his wife that is a no no for a real soldier warrior.. your sole mission is to focus what is on hand and worry about your private life when you are back home
Originally posted by King Castle
i realize my pain is inconsequential in the grand scheme of life so i try not to let it effect me to the point i am a crying sniffling lil girl like guys like peter who seems to constantly cry when his wife breaks up with him or when he thinks of qwen years later etc etc..he cries in mid battle about his wife that is a no no for a real soldier warrior.. your sole mission is to focus what is on hand and worry about your private life when you are back home
So once more you project unfair standards onto people.
Originally posted by 753
haha there is nothing sociopathic at all about it. It's natural for people to feel more empathy for a greater loss than for a smaller one. Depending on how small it is, the griefer might just seem spoiled and weak to an observer.For instance if a friend had come tell me that he had just broken up with his girlfriend of a year and another friend had told me his wife had died in his arms, I would be far more moved by the dead wife then the common break up and it would indeed be a much bigger deal to any normal person.
In fact, if both events had occurred arround the same time and they were both crying about it to me, I would probably tell the dumped one to suck it up, cause his loss would seem so meaningless in comparison to the widower's.
a personality disorder that is characterized by antisocial behavior exhibiting pervasive disregard for and violation of the rights, feelings, and safety of others starting in childhood or the early teenage years and continuing into adulthood —called also psychopathic personality disorder.
Originally posted by King CastleSo you're saying he cried when he was justified, makes him a crybaby?
who me?he cried while fighting the hulk about marry jane when he thought she may had tied.
also during the break up moments with her he appeared to cry iirc regularly
You know what? I'm just going to report you for trolling.
Originally posted by King Castle
who me?he cried while fighting the hulk about marry jane when he thought she may had tied.
also during the break up moments with her he appeared to cry iirc regularly
wait are you seriously trying to say that crying because you think your wife is dead makes u a crybaby?