Originally posted by Quiero Mota
The whole Santa/God comparison is a card that Atheists try to play a lot. But its faulty. One can take a trip to the North Pole or install a camera in their living room on Xmas Eve and disprove Santa's existence. But you can't commit suicide and then immediately come back and say "A-ha! There is a (or no) god!".
The presence of Santa in the analogy probably made you think I was using it as it's commonly used. The more abstract point, removed from figures that might detract from the meaning, is this: If you don't believe in something, you won't be afraid of it. If you're an atheist, you can't fear God. If you do, you're not an atheist, and would more rightly fit into certain definitions of agnosticism. Simple as that.
Originally posted by Quiero Mota
The thread-starter basically wants to know why and how Atheists decided to believe what they do; I do too. Its usually informative and revealing (and sometimes entertaining and embarrassing) to hear how they arrived at their current destination.
So glad we can provide embarrassing entertainment for you, oh wise one.
Originally posted by Quiero Mota
"Complacency" seems to be the right word, because it means "secure", "confident" and "being satisfied with one's current state". Atheists are often all of those things...or at least they appear to be and project themselves that way when talking with theists. I have no doubt that there are some dogged, unshakingly confident Atheists out there who 'know' there's no god. But many more have a lingering fear/doubt somewhere in the back of their minds.
Then they are mislabeled if you consider them atheists. Like I said earlier, tautologically clear.
Also, "many more" is purely speculative, a broad guess based on nothing but your bias. If anyone considering themselves an atheist does have lingering fears, I can't imagine they would truly remain an atheist for any significant amount of time, regardless of what they're calling themselves.
Also as before, one does not need to be either unshakably confident or fearful. You're creating a false dichotomy by leaving no other options. Every atheist I've ever met, heard about, read about, etc. is neither of those things.