Can sexuality be influenced?

Started by Dr Mystery12 pages
Originally posted by Existere
Fair enough. I hadn't actually considered (or, really, heard of) cases where women who were abused as children grew up to realize a homosexual (or bisexual, pansexual etc) identity.

No, me neither, but it's kind of a cliche (albeit a sick one) ; Girl gets raped by guy, becomes lesbian due to mistrust of men. There are some very mis-informed people who think this is how lesbians are made, I would think anyway.

Originally posted by Dr Mystery
No, me neither, but it's kind of a cliche (albeit a sick one) ; Girl gets raped by guy, becomes lesbian due to mistrust of men. There are some very mis-informed people who think this is how lesbians are made, I would think anyway.

if it were that simple, science would have known what caused homosexuality a month after they started looking

Originally posted by dadudemon
Ahhhh. Thanks for the clarification. I did not realize how heavily influenced higher thought processes were by lower ones (not the obvious ones, but more subtle abstract ones like conceptual attractivness versus purely biological traits.)

The visual cortex psychologist pulls through for me. pained

ya, sorry it wasn't a full answer, but I figured that was the main issue you were talking about. I'm not aware of either of the studies you brought up, so I can't speak to them specifically, but none of that is overly surprising.

I'd point out though, in this case, we aren't talking about low level influencing high level, we are talking about behavior being motivated by things that these higher or declarative centers may never be aware of. it's similar to the libet research, where motivation to act comes after your body has already prepared to make the action. in many ways, our declarative, conscious mind plays a secondary role in determining our behavior (damn auto correct keeps taking the "u" out of that).

this actually is also somewhat important with regard to the infant looking stuff. c-master wants to interpret longer looking as a measure of attraction, whereas it could be that more symmetric faces simply draw our attention better, and because we attend to things more, a consequence might be that we rate them as more attractive. if that makes sense.

Originally posted by dadudemon
The visual cortex psychologist pulls through for me. pained

lol, and just because I'm neurotic, its not simply visual cortex anymore(I was more an attention psychologist than anything before anyways, just visual attention) but rather visuo-motor, or action and perception now 🙂

Originally posted by inimalist
this actually is also somewhat important with regard to the infant looking stuff. c-master wants to interpret longer looking as a measure of attraction, whereas it could be that more symmetric faces simply draw our attention better, and because we attend to things more, a consequence might be that we rate them as more attractive. if that makes sense.

It does; that makes perfect sense.

Originally posted by inimalist
lol, and just because I'm neurotic, its not simply visual cortex anymore(I was more an attention psychologist than anything before anyways, just visual attention) but rather visuo-motor, or action and perception now 🙂

Cool, so this is why you're talking about thought propogation and motivation origins?

Originally posted by dadudemon
Cool, so this is why you're talking about thought propogation and motivation origins?

no, to be frank, I rarely talk about concepts at a level beyond intro psych courses

most people who have the same degree as me, regardless of their specialization, would be familiar with what I'm saying

Originally posted by inimalist
if it were that simple, science would have known what caused homosexuality a month after they started looking

I wasn't saying that's how I thought lesbians were made.

Originally posted by Dr Mystery
I wasn't saying that's how I thought lesbians were made.
My momma always taught me that Lezbeens were made by Satan to convert innocent girls to his Dark cause.

Originally posted by Dr Mystery
I wasn't saying that's how I thought lesbians were made.

I know

They are made by them choosing to be like that.

Originally posted by ADarksideJedi
They are made by them choosing to be like that.
Out of curiosity to see this point of view fleshed out:

Do you feel that choice played a part in your sexual identity?

What factors do you think would play a part in such a choice?

Originally posted by ADarksideJedi
They are made by them choosing to be like that.

Why do they choose to be like that?

Originally posted by King Kandy
Why do they choose to be like that?

Because girls are obviously much more delicious to have sex with? I can't fault them for their obviously correct choice. hmm

Why do you guys ask ADSJ those type of questions?

Like, one would figure that you'd have learned her MO by now. 😐

It's fun.

Originally posted by King Kandy
It's fun.

I don't find it that fun, actually.

She's obviously not an uber academic and she has some old school opinions/beliefs that find their roots in religion. It might have been cool to pick on those types in highschool to some but not on an internet message board.

Think about: how many times have people "verbally" abused her for her opinions and how many times has she changed her way of thinking?

Well, I'm genuinely curious. I don't think I'll hear any strong evidence or arguments to support the whole theory, but I don't actually know the details of that line of thinking beyond 'they chose to be that way'.

Originally posted by dadudemon
I don't find it that fun, actually.

She's obviously not an uber academic and she has some old school opinions/beliefs that find their roots in religion. It might have been cool to pick on those types in highschool to some but not on an internet message board.

Think about: how many times have people "verbally" abused her for her opinions and how many times has she changed her way of thinking?


Asking her to explain her point is verbal abuse?

Originally posted by King Kandy
Asking her to explain her point is verbal abuse?

Don't play innocent. 😬

Originally posted by dadudemon
Don't play innocent. 😬

You're right. I will no longer ask her any questions, ever.