The saddest thing I've ever read.

Yes break-ups are sad.
Sadder when one is found cheating on the other.
Hell, I'm not perfect, I've been on both ends.

Another sad story, a guy once broke down & told me.
It was going to be his 30th Wedding Anniversary coming up & unfortunately he was called o/seas on a business trip. Anyway on the night itself, his wife sent him his favourite bottle of wine to his hotel room & a card saying, "Happy 30th, Miss you & Love you heaps, Here's to another 30 years together blah blah blah." Suffice to say, it made his night being away from his wife, alone in a hotel room...

Two days later, he arrived back home to an empty house. All his wife's belongings were gone & a note saying that she's been having an affair behind his back for years & she's finally leaving him.
Go figure.

Lol, i will never get married. Even with all the women who want to marry me i will never do it.

Originally posted by Colossus-Big C
Lol, i will never get married. Even with all the women who want to marry me i will never do it.

Originally posted by Colossus-Big C
Lol, i will never get married. Even with all the women who want to marry me i will never do it.

Playa Playa from da Himalyas.

Originally posted by Colossus-Big C
Lol, i will never get married. Even with all the women who want to marry me i will never do it.

Closet's not big enough? 😛

Originally posted by Esau Cairn
Closet's not big enough? 😛

😂 Nice one.

I want to hear from Astner. Odd that we haven't seen him after the OP.

I'd like to thank the ones who've contributed. I've loosely followed this threat at school -- hence why I haven't been logged in -- and I've read every post.

I'd also like to give the middle finger to the people without any sense of empathy or morality, and I'll leave it at that.

I've been chatting with the guy, Peter, for hours and I'm sad to say that it hasn't gotten much better.

At he beginning he had hanging around her facebook, where she had updated her status to: "At the good-looking guy's place." So she wasn't really going to her parents house to think things over.

Yesterday she had sent him an SMS when he was at the gym, saying: "I'm going to go get my stuff at Wednesday, I'll take the cats."

I mean that the **** is wrong with this woman? Doesn't she realize that she has behaves like a total whore?

Originally posted by dadudemon
We only read one side of the story.

Originally posted by Digi
I want to hear from Astner. Odd that we haven't seen him after the OP.

Originally posted by dadudemon
I don't think the guy is aggressive.

I've had drunk guys try to start shit with me at bars before, and never gotten in a fight by ignoring them or avoiding them.

If your answer is to start pushing them, you have nothing to complain about when you get ktfo, and I'd call you aggressive.

Originally posted by ArtificialGlory
Your friend was a fool to get this close to someone.

Originally posted by Astner

I'd also like to give the middle finger to the people without any sense of empathy or morality, and I'll leave it at that.

At he beginning he had hanging around her facebook, where she had updated her status to: "At the good-looking guy's place." So she wasn't really going to her parents house to think things over.

You have a history of being rude in here, so you really shouldn't cry now. Very poor form.

Well, tell Peter to look on the bright-side, seems she didn't leave him cos he can't handle himself in a fight, but because the other is better looking; that's something he can't control.

Originally posted by Robtard
Tell him to move on; unless he's an obsessive nut-job, he will.

What happened to him sucks, and he could use emotional support; however.......yeah....

World + spinning. Clocks + ticking. Fish + sea. Pick your saying. They all apply.

Its just far more fun having sex with thousands of women than being stuck with one woman.
of course im going to use protection though. i dont need to ever get married. atleast untill im old enough to want a family

Originally posted by Colossus-Big C
Its just far more fun having sex with thousands of women than being stuck with one woman.

The next Wilt Chamberlain

Originally posted by Astner
I'd also like to give the middle finger to the people without any sense of empathy or morality, and I'll leave it at that.

Well, this is the internet, so you shouldn't be terribly surprised. And what you're talking about is unfortunate but isn't particularly tragic as these things go. It happens. Hell, it's happened to me. Not in as dramatic a fashion, granted, but a long-time gf ditched me and was with a guy the next week that she had been friends with (and quite possibly "friends" with all the implications of the quotations). They were engaged less than 2 months later. And you know what I did? I got upset for a little while, then got over it maybe 2 weeks later and moved on, because I'm an adult with a sense of perspective.

So some of the sarcasm is because of that, and also because, if she keeps laying on with overtly "evil" actions, it should actually make it easier for your friend to eventually be like "Huh. Bullet dodged, I guess."

Originally posted by Astner
Because cheating on your partner can be justified as the right course of action, am I following you correctly?

Of course not, that's not a fair question. The "two sides to every story" is particularly true in many relationships. Her side likely doesn't vindicate her actions, in fact it almost certainly doesn't, but it might also provide some rationale or insight into the reasons behind it. And the people who are least likely to be unbiased about interpreting events are those closest to it. That's all that's being said.

Originally posted by Colossus-Big C
Its just far more fun having sex with thousands of women than being stuck with one woman.
of course im going to use protection though. i dont need to ever get married. atleast untill im old enough to want a family

Who is this in response to? Who do you imagine is interested in this?

The "Big C" in his name ain't a coincidence.

Don't be jelly.

It's not even the "thousand women" comment that baffles me. Needless internet posturing has been around since I was running through text-based MUD's (my favorite old-school reference). But it's how out of context his posts seem.

Originally posted by Colossus-Big C
Its just far more fun having sex with thousands of women than being stuck with one woman.
of course im going to use protection though. i dont need to ever get married. atleast untill im old enough to want a family

I was just like that a month ago till I met a ****ing goddess.
everything about her amazing.

not saying she the one but she changed my view on relationships. I realise now
1 girl you love > randoms whom you hope aren't infected

Originally posted by 0mega Spawn
1 girl you love > randoms whom you hope aren't infected

I, too, fear becoming part of the zombie horde in the coming apocalypse before getting the chance to do some movie-style zombie-bashin'

Originally posted by Astner
Because cheating on your partner can be justified as the right course of action, am I following you correctly?

No, that would be a strawman. That's neither stated nor implied in my post.

But, to directly address what you stated: both would be at fault. There are definitely two sides. He seems like he might be overbearing and emotionally abusive.

Originally posted by inimalist
If your answer is to start pushing them, you have nothing to complain about when you get ktfo, and I'd call you aggressive.

That's not very aggressive, at all. It would appear that the gent was just responding to being physically accosted. Was he not pushed first? I would say his reaction was quite calm.