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But yeah, of course I would. I'm not so shallow that I wouldn't bang a hot chick mercilessly just because she's a little messed up. I respect women for the right reasons: their looks alone.
Now, crazy is a different issue. Don't go there. But insecure just means she needs to be comforted and supported. With your package.
Also, you shouldn't steal signatures. It's considered bad etiquette.
If you want to date someone who will constantly consult you about her wardrobe, ask if she looks fat in something, run your credit card dry because she just had to get that dress because it makes her feel good about herself, and go through the same thing with makeup... and then have her consistently get "slight" procedures of plastic surgery, like a face lift even though she's only twenty-something, then a nip and a tuck and a boob job, than sure.
If you want to cater to manic/depressive-ness, forever suggesting counseling but forever watching your other friend list losing people because you have to stay with your girlfriend comforting or fighting with her. than sure.
Besides, security of mind is beauty.
I had this chick who was so insecure it was ****ing ridiculous. she wanted to be on the phone 24/7 literally. when i try to say im going to call her back because im busy(just an excuse) after being on the phone for hours she gets frustrated. when she calls and i missed it(because im at work and my phone on silent) when i finally check my phone i see she had called over 20 times. she either does that or pops up at my job.
One time i made a mistake and left phone around her and she called my mother and cursed at her and called her a b*tch , because she though it was a girl texting me (because my mom calls me baby).
I left her and this stupid whore still thinks were together.
Sure, I would. She will be very dysfunctional, obviously, in some situations. Depression might be an issue, as well. However, I'm highly infectious as a person (people, IRL, begrudgingly end up emulating my behaviors and quarks for some reason) and she'd eventually cheer up.
Originally posted by Digi
I respect women for the right reasons: their looks alone. But insecure just means she needs to be comforted and supported. With your package.
haermm2
WTF, dude?
Originally posted by Colossus-Big C
I had this chick who was so insecure it was ****ing ridiculous. she wanted to be on the phone 24/7 literally. when i try to say im going to call her back because im busy(just an excuse) after being on the phone for [b]hours she gets frustrated. when she calls and i missed it(because im at work and my phone on silent) when i finally check my phone i see she had called over 20 times. she either does that or pops up at my job. [/B]
These are my favorite types.
Originally posted by inimalist
I'm not sure that is actually "insecurity"
You're probably thinking something else. But it is extreme insecurity mixed in with some crazy shit.
Honestly, most beautiful women are insecure for one reason: they've generally been in relationships almost their entire lives. Much of who they are is based on the affirmation of worth that they receive from the boys and then men that they have dated over the years. When they are single the project their need to be with someone like a beacon and time and time again they end up with someone who treats them like a trophy. In the rare case that they end up with a worthwhile partner it usually ends quickly because he calls her on her crap. You can also add that even those males they aren't dating fawn over them to the point that they cannot even understand who they are at the core; they are only their looks and the company that they keep.
This is not ALWAYS the case by any means, but it's true quite often.
What inamilist said. There's a healthy bit of crazy leaking into that "insecurity."
If you've gotten some good snoo-snoo, I say make it clear that you're done and get the hell outa Dodge.
Unless you're trying to set her up as a booty call. But I wouldn't. Usually it's the chill chicks who make good friends that make the best low-maintainence side dishes.
Originally posted by Colossus-Big C
...this stupid whore...
Ya know what? I take back everything I said. it sounds like you two crazy kids have a chance.
Actually, Big C, what you need is some science to help you get to the bottom of this:
Determine where she is on each axis. If she's above the line, tough it out and quit your whining. If she's beneath it, run.
Originally posted by dadudemon
You're probably thinking something else. But it is extreme insecurity mixed in with some crazy shit.
the level of aggression suggests something other than insecurity. An insecure person would be much more passive aggressive, not likely to show up at your work.
I'd say some type of behavioural control issues, maybe some obsessiveness, maybe a conduct disorder. Hard to net-psych someone from such a poor description, but not what I would call insecure at all.
Still, if a crazy gf showed up at work threatening to kill your 70 year old secretary because the gf thinks you're having an affair after the sec sends you a fruitcake for the holidays I'd say there's a bit of insecurity going on there. There may be other disorders as well, but any excessive scenarios show a lack of confidence in oneself.
jealousy and insecurity are not the same thing, nor is possessiveness, nor is narcissism.
what you have described is almost certainly not the action of an insecure individual, because that level of direct aggressiveness requires a level of self-confidence that is, by definition, not present in insecure individuals.
Maybe not meant to be read consecutively, but:
Originally posted by inimalist
jealousy and insecurity are not the same thing, nor is possessiveness, nor is narcissism.what you have described is almost certainly not the action of an insecure individual, because that level of direct aggressiveness requires a level of self-confidence that is, by definition, not present in insecure individuals.
Originally posted by juggerman
depends on how insecure she actually is.
😂
Originally posted by Colossus-Big C
How exactly do I use the graph?
lmao, this pretty much just made my day.
Anyway, here you go:
