K, The real story is that my cousins girlfirend tricked him into getting her pregnant. The good news is he never took her to his house nor does she know his real name, just his nick name.
She got the condum from the trash and dumped the contents inside her i hear. She wanted to get pregnant so he wont leave her"shrug"
Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
Turn him in.
But he doesn't want it and there's nothing he can do about it, apparently.
Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
We already have a system to punish women who have unwanted pregnancies.
What is this system and describe it for me. I'm drawing a blank.
Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
I see no reason guys should be excluded from that fun.
Touché. He sounds like a dude that is in over his head, though.
Originally posted by dadudemon
But he doesn't want it and there's nothing he can do about it, apparently.
Actually in retrospect you should have said "He didn't do anything so he can't get turned in for it."
Originally posted by dadudemon
What is this system and describe it for me. I'm drawing a blank.
Its usually called "getting unexpectedly pregnant". There are no options following that which do not come with considerable social, economic, or psychological cost. I'd call it a system simply because the response is so often "she shouldn't have been a ****" more than "how do we help get her out of the situation as smoothly as possible?".
In any event he'll probably never pay a penny unless he goes to see her again or something. I have family members who work with child services. Finding a father who doesn't want to be found is too difficult to be worth anyone's time for the very little money they can usually get from him (though maybe Big-C's cousin is loaded).
Possibly. On the other hand, the setting of the story sounds like it takes place in the Ghetto. I've heard far worse stories than this that have ended up being true.
Just as an example, my sister-in-law admitted to poking holes in her husband's condom because he wouldn't marry her. She thought that if he ended up getting her pregnant, he'd be forced too.
I don't know why people try to deny the fact that women have just as much of an inclination to be scumbags as men, if not more so.
Originally posted by Tzeentch._
Possibly. On the other hand, the setting of the story sounds like it takes place in the Ghetto. I've heard far worse stories than this that have ended up being true.Just as an example, my sister-in-law admitted to poking holes in her husband's condom because he wouldn't marry her. She thought that if he ended up getting her pregnant, he'd be forced too.
I don't know why people try to deny the fact that women have just as much of an inclination to be scumbags as men, if not more so.
I'm fully aware that there's many a crazy ***** out there.
This story though, girl's never been to his house, she only knows him by his nickname, but here she's digging through the garbage to dump the contents of a used condom to have a baby with the guy? Sounds BS.
Originally posted by Tzeentch._
If she ****s with the condom than its not an unwanted pregnancy.Let the whore rot with her baby. She doesn't deserve child support.
If it had been an unwanted pregnancy you'd still be calling her a whore. If we're going to make sex a minefield for women it may as well be a minefield for men as well. Share the love, you know.