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Originally posted by dadudemon
For some people, the tax breaks and tuition breaks (including grants) are enough. They like to come halfway by working full time.If you're more than capable of working and going to college, while having children, why take advantage of the system? 🙂 Save that money for someone else.
It seems odd to you but what people like my and Firefly's mothers are doing (or did) is saving the money for those mothers (or fathers) that are in shittier situations. So maybe they have to work a bit harder than most people. If we're honest, that type of attitude is more communist than using the system because it saves the money for comrades that could use it more, haha.
I'm simply arguing that I don't see any nobility in someone who needs help refusing it just because there are other people who might need it relatively more, especially if food stamps could make their children's lives happier and healthier.
I don't know your or Firefly's mothers' exact situations, what kind of standard of living they were at, and so on, but if they were anywhere close to the poverty line, I don't see any shame in taking advantage of foodstamps--quite the opposite, I'd call it a shame if they refused that assistance out of some misguided principle.
I don't think what you're describing is "communist" at all, because what you're describing is based on individual welfare (albeit others' welfare, rather than your own) rather than collective welfare. If you were thinking like a communist, you'd be thinking "well, how can we make it so that we all get foodstamps?" I'd almost call your outlook on foodstamps a kind of extroverted or vicarious selfishness, or perhaps more accurately, self-sacrifice.