Is **** shaming wrong?

A girl like sex, a lot. She cheats on her boyfriends, a lot. She ruins people's lives by sleeping with them. But the question is, is it wrong for us to hate on her? Its half and half for me.

A slvt is different from a cheater. If you're a cheater, **** you. A a girl who likes sex, whatever. I don't see how getting banged by a bunch of dudes is ruining lives, either, lol.

Is the word sloot?

Anyway, no it's not wrong in my opinion. If you like sex that's absolutely fine, but don't engage in what is meant to be a faithful relationship and then cheat. You're a b*tch for that and a horrible person if your partner is unaware and not okay with that behavior. You're even worse if you're actively damaging other relationships by just sleeping with every guy you find. She should be made to feel bad for her actions because they're bad and hurt other people. They might even get her hurt because there are tons of guys out there who will beat her ass or even kill her for cheating on them.

You wanna sleep around? Fine, as an attractive woman it shouldn't be too hard to hook up with lots of guys. But stay single in the process and just hook up.

I used to cheat and didn't feel any remorse at all till I got older, I was also very manipulative and a pathological liar.

Wow.

To answer the question, yes, "slut shaming" is wrong, little more than organized bullying

I think cheating is a teenage thing, you grow out of it. But usually the term "****" is used for a girl that sleeps around, maybe the guy will think you're in a relationship? I mean he has every reason to think that way, you ****ed him, right?

Cheating is a teenage thing? Cheating does happen in your teenage years, but you certainly don't just grow out of it when you become an adult. If anything it's actually easier to cheat as an adult as you have resources to help you and can be smarter about it.

I've just noticed as I am now I always feel awful if I do something even resembling cheating, my conscience steps into my life more often then it used to, by a long shot, I mean if I got caught, sure, I'd bawl my eyes out. But besides that, I was completely fine. As an example I felt horrible for asking someone out
while this girl liked me.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
I think cheating is a teenage thing, you grow out of it.

But usually the term "****" is used for a girl that sleeps around, maybe the guy will think you're in a relationship?

I mean he has every reason to think that way, you ****ed him, right?

Cheating is an every age thing, depends on the person; not their age

"****" is a shitty and dishonest term. Just because I girl/woman enjoys sex out of a relationship doesn't mean she's horrible in some fashion

Sex can just be that, sex. It doesn't mean you're in a relationship

Having sex doesn't mean people have a responsible loving relationship with each other.

Yeah there's nothing wrong with sleeping around. Everybody does it. But if you're supposedly in a relationship and you continue to do so, then you're a bad person. IMO you wanna sleep with every guy in the city or girl, that's your prerogative. But it stops when you put the label of boyfriend/girlfriend on you and another's relationship. You keep doing it then yeah I consider you a sloot. You're not a sloot if you do it and you're single though.

Yeah, but if you have sex with a guy, the guy has every right to believe that you guys are dating. "But... we had sex..."

No he doesn't. One night stands, hookups, flings, f*ck buddies. There's literally dozens of terms recognized by pretty much the entirety of the world that showcase how you can have sex and not be in a committed relationship with that person.

If I meet a girl at a bar, take her home and sex her up. I won't automatically assume we're dating. Now if I've taken her on a number of dates over the course of a few weeks/months, and we finally have sex. Then it'd be safe to assume we're approaching bf/gf territory if not already there.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
Yeah, but if you have sex with a guy, the guy has every right to believe that you guys are dating. "But... we had sex..."

Well, the thing is, you are not dating until both sides agree that they are dating. Why would the guy believe anything when he can just ask?

True. My point of view is that being a "****" is ok, till it ruins someone's someones life.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
A girl like sex, a lot.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
She cheats on her boyfriends, a lot. She ruins people's lives by sleeping with them.

Anything is okay till it ruins someones life or you get caught in that aspect.

Originally posted by KingD19
Anything is okay till it ruins someones life or you get caught in that aspect.

Sleeping with a string of men is fine. As long as one of them isn't your SO. Most people know the difference between a quick f*ck and a relationship so there's no real problem if you make it clear your intentions.