Is **** shaming wrong?

Started by shiv11 pages

Sl_t ... is also a behavior tag.

https://metro.co.uk/2019/06/25/bridesmaid-drops-wedding-bride-refuses-let-wear-black-see-dress-10064274/

Now if she presented herself at her sister's wedding like that she would absolutely qualify as slutty.

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I'll put this here:

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/mum-battered-friend-boozed-up-11293491

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/levi-cracknell-emma-bent-court-13726308

Originally posted by shiv
Sl_t ... is also a behavior tag.

https://metro.co.uk/2019/06/25/bridesmaid-drops-wedding-bride-refuses-let-wear-black-see-dress-10064274/

Now if she presented herself at her sister's wedding like that she would absolutely qualify as slutty.

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I'll put this here:

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/mum-battered-friend-boozed-up-11293491

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/levi-cracknell-emma-bent-court-13726308

Seen the pictures would also bang both Emma and Levi.

Originally posted by Silent Master
But if the person was unaware anything happened, it's ok. right?

Are you asking for my permission to commit rape?

Originally posted by Bentley
Pretending that ignorance is a free pass in guilty behaviours is not healthy for the one cheating. Also it kind of denies their partner of the maturity of dealing with a real situation and infantilises them terribly.

I think that hindering personal growth is caring too much about the relationship as an status and too little about your partner. Learning is supposed to be painful as you meet with actual resistance.

Bingo, any grown ass adult should get this.

Originally posted by samhain
Are you asking for my permission to commit rape?

Is that a yes to my question in regards to your standards?

If a woman is passed out drunk and is raped but doesn't remember the rape...was she harmed? The logic put forth suggests nah. What Shelly McRaped don't know won't hurt her.

Funny how certain personality types seem to be trying to turn this into a rape thread.

Originally posted by Silent Master
Is that a yes to my question in regards to your standards?

Never said this was anything to do with my standards, joking and trolling aside, it really is beginning to feel like you want me to justify rape to you. Is this the best you've got?

Originally posted by samhain
Never said this was anything to do with my standards, joking and trolling aside, it really is beginning to feel like you want me to justify rape to you. Is this the best you've got?

Your standard was that if one side is unaware that something happened to them, they weren't hurt.

We are just trying to see if you apply sed standard consistently.

SM wants permission to rape. You won't get it from me sunshine.

IOW, I'm right about your standards?

Originally posted by samhain
Funny how certain personality types seem to be trying to turn this into a rape thread.

I agree that cheating is a business between two consenting adults and that it cannot be compared to rape.

Now there are certain people that think that downright lying to get sex is similar to a rape, because you get consent by manipulating the other and in certain circumstances you wouldn't get sex otherwise.

So let's say for example that your wife would dump you if you cheated on her, but you withhold that information and kept having sex with her... Would that count as a rape by manipulation?

Originally posted by Bentley
I agree that cheating is a business between two consenting adults and that it cannot be compared to rape.

Now there are certain people that think that downright lying to get sex is similar to a rape, because you get consent by manipulating the other and in certain circumstances you wouldn't get sex otherwise.

So let's say for example that your wife would dump you if you cheated on her, but you withhold that information and kept having sex with her... Would that count as a rape by manipulation?

But he didn't bring up anything to do with consent, he said if you don't know something happened it can't hurt you.

After all, the boyfriend in this scenario did not consent to being cheated on.

"What you don't know can't hurt you". That is the claim.

Originally posted by Silent Master
IOW, I'm right about your standards?

Right how? you made no assertions, you asked a stupid question twice. You've failed to read the posts properly but you were obviously excited at the prospect of being given permission to commit rape by me. You're forgiven.

So, for the record no. I am not advocating rape, pretty sure I said that before but you were paying more attention to your tumescence.

Originally posted by samhain
Right how? you made no assertions, you asked a stupid question twice. You've failed to read the posts properly but you were obviously excited at the prospect of being given permission to commit rape by me. You're forgiven.

So, for the record no. I am not advocating rape, pretty sure I said that before but you were paying more attention to your tumescence.

You still haven't said whether or not your standards would mean no harm was done.

Originally posted by samhain
Right how? you made no assertions, you asked a stupid question twice. You've failed to read the posts properly but you were obviously excited at the prospect of being given permission to commit rape by me. You're forgiven.

So, for the record no. I am not advocating rape, pretty sure I said that before but you were paying more attention to your tumescence.

You know, before you said "joking and trolling aside" and yet you keep pushing this idea that he truly wants your permission to rape someone.

Originally posted by Bentley
I agree that cheating is a business between two consenting adults and that it cannot be compared to rape.

Now there are certain people that think that downright lying to get sex is similar to a rape, because you get consent by manipulating the other and in certain circumstances you wouldn't get sex otherwise.

So let's say for example that your wife would dump you if you cheated on her, but you withhold that information and kept having sex with her... Would that count as a rape by manipulation?

All rape is by manipulation. But this is a good point, I have long felt that the kinds of people who take advantage of a situation for sexual gain, whether it be by lying about being a doctor to impress somebody, or paying somebody, or blackmailing somebody, they're not a million miles away from a rapist. My general rule is, if I have to talk/manipulate/coerce a girl into sleeping with me, then I won't, because she seemingly doesn't want to and I don't think I'd be into sleeping with a girl who can't wait for the thing to be over. Maybe it's an ego thing, I like to be wanted.

Originally posted by Surtur
You know, before you said "joking and trolling aside" and yet you keep pushing this idea that he truly wants your permission to rape someone.

Oh it's whiny Surt today. Prob gonna try and have me banned for this.

Originally posted by samhain
All rape is by manipulation. But this is a good point, I have long felt that the kinds of people who take advantage of a situation for sexual gain, whether it be by lying about being a doctor to impress somebody, or paying somebody, or blackmailing somebody, they're not a million miles away from a rapist. My general rule is, if I have to talk/manipulate/coerce a girl into sleeping with me, then I won't, because she seemingly doesn't want to and I don't think I'd be into sleeping with a girl who can't wait for the thing to be over. Maybe it's an ego thing, I like to be wanted.

Seduction isn't manipulation? You don't usually have to talk to seduce? Are you just eye f*cking the shit out of these women?

Originally posted by samhain
Oh it's whiny Surt today. Prob gonna try and have me banned for this.

Lol nah don't want you banned.

Plus you'd never be banned anyways, your name isn't Surtur or FlyAttractor lol.

EDIT: Also wait, where is the whining? I correctly pointed out something you said that you didn't seem to be following.