Have you ever been falsely accused of raping someone?

Started by Jmanghan3 pages

Have you ever been falsely accused of raping someone?

I was, today. Its not a fun feelin when your ex, whom you've known since 9th grade, accuses you of molesting her.

Also, a side question, should I press charges against her? And will this ruin my life? O.o

not falsely, no.

but seriously, that's pretty fucced up.

dunno about the pressing charges thing... how do you prove you didn't rape someone? Seems to me like that can only lead down a bad road for you.

Yeah, if the matter has been resolved then just let it go.

Is the person in question insisting into accusing you? Is it a very public thing? Do you feel it's hurting the perception people around you might have of you?

Originally posted by Bentley
Is the person in question insisting into accusing you? Is it a very public thing? Do you feel it's hurting the perception people around you might have of you?
She said it to her boyfriend after we did it. And I stayed around for two hours while she cuddled me and said it was "BOTH OUR FAULTS". All I really did was touch her bare breasts. There were paper thin walls, not even mentioning the fact that her father was LITERALLY right outside the door, and I did not have her pinned down. I can prove all of this. As for your question, everyone I told so far believed me. But now for the rest of my life, I'm gonna have people walking around on the streets, accusing me of being a molester/rapist. False rape accusations are rare, but they do happen.

Re: Have you ever been falsely accused of raping someone?

Originally posted by Jmanghan
I was, today. Its not a fun feelin when your ex, whom you've known since 9th grade, accuses you of molesting her.

You're not her teacher are you?
Juz asking...

Shes older then me.

Aw man, i thought she'd filed charges.
This is just mickey mouse kid stuff. Stop telling people; blow it off. Its only a big deal because you're making it one.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
False rape accusations are rare, but they do happen.

Yes well, you cannot really undo whatever accusations she throws at you, I'm not sure that trying to reprimend her with a lawsuit is going to win you the sympathy of other people. Again, this is very dependant in how she accuses you.

Admitting rape is a very challenging thing to do for a woman, as victims often suffer from some kind of discrimination. If this person is callous enough to falsely accuse you of it, I don't believe it will look necessarily very believable from her.

I wouldn't try to get overly defensive over her accusations.

Yes I have been accused of rape against one of my exes. I don't know why she did I guess she got mad when she found out I liked men

And hell yes press charges

No.

Lying about rape is as bad as the crime rape you could ruin a persons life

dunno about it being "as bad" as the actual crime, but I'm a strong advocate of women who lie about being raped being prosecuted and sentenced to a prison term for however many years the guy would have gotten if he had actually raped her.

This is why you videotape everything.

Originally posted by Nuke Nixon
This is why you videotape everything.

That's just a excuse to make porn

Originally posted by Spawningpool
Lying about rape is as bad as the crime rape you could ruin a persons life

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Originally posted by AbnormalButSane
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Trust me when you are accused of rape nobody trusts you.. Not even my goddamn parents believed me. It's one of the reasons I had to come out the closet... It almost ruined my life.

I'm sorry for that, but no. It's not as bad as rape itself.