Originally posted by Newjak
They are different though. Pretending they are the exact same is just as bad as pretending they are completely different. There is some overlap but I would think living as a different gender has a much higher strain on the mind then not having big enough boobs.
You just proved my point perfectly, because who the hell decides what level of strain a person is feeling, and which conditions merit more or less strain. That is why this is so silly. You'd essentially be telling people who get turned away that their aren't mentally unhealthy enough to receive free needless surgery, but these other people over there are mentally unhealthy enough so they get it.
I mean, I think that is actually some arrogance for us to sit down and now judge the mental strain of things. Especially since different people can be strained out by the same issue, but they all won't have similar levels of strain.
Oh and also how do you go about proving one person doesn't have the mental strain of a transgender? You couldn't even use statistics of studies involving other people to show people with transgender issues are more mentally unhealthy then(insert whatever other body issues might cause someone to want cosmetic surgery) because each individual is different. You can't generalize when it comes to mental health.
So you see the clusterf*ck that could already potentially come out of this? It could also lead to lawsuits, people who feel transgenders were given preferential treatment over people with other mental health issues. It could lead to all kinds of negative things that outweigh any positives that could ever come out of this.
Also I think your confusing the idea of knowing with consent. All this means is that the child can do go through the steps without having to have parental permission that does not equate to the parent not knowing.
I'm not confusing anything because this is exactly the way a lot of people defending this acted. Just look at the link to see the utter misdirection. You have a woman going on about how this is important to prevent suicide because the parents might not be supportive. But uh, they won't be supportive even if they don't have to give permission. I mean I don't want to pay for this, but even I find that a little bit cruel to make it seem like they can get this without parental permission easy peasy.
I mean hell, legally, couldn't a parent forbid their child from taking medicine that is not needed, like hormones? Or do we take away that right as well? What if they refuse to buy their child clothes for the opposite gender. Can't live as the opposite gender if you don't look the part, so what then? Parents are forced to buy specific clothes too?
Or what stops a parent from moving out of Oregon so their child can't do this? If I'm a parent and I am against my 15 yr. old kid getting a sex change and the friggin government tries to tell me they don't need my consent in Oregon, well that would be it for Oregon. We'd be gone the next day. This won't stop parents that are truly not supportive with this, not by a long shot. The parents vehemently against this would absolutely take such measures to prevent it. So what, we pass this in every state?
As for the topic itself. I don't know where I stand on it. From the sounds of it this stuff can be really intense for the person and getting the transformation earlier can help but this is a major life altering decision.Personally I would rather leave it up to the people who know this topic better to decide what the best course of action is.
But at the end of the day we are still being expected to pay for a persons cosmetic surgery. Cosmetic surgery is cosmetic surgery. Just because it's a more major operation doesn't make it any less cosmetic surgery. I don't want to pay for a guys new vagina or a womans new boobs or this guys new pec implants or any of that.
I'm also very weary of any parent that would actually support this. This link is old, but I feel we should doing shit like this a LOT more:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2254924/Mother-Florida-abandoned-children-hotel-room-banned-having-babies.html
Why don't we do this more often?!?!?!?! They actually BANNED her from having kids for the duration of her probation(13 years) and the b*tch still said in court she wanted even more kids! She was hesitant to take a damn deal to keep her out of prison because she wanted to pump out even more children into this world for her to neglect, etc.